if my husband told me he wants a second wife cus he cant lower his gaze im divorcing him
2025-12-27 13:12:17
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𓂆 Ovo.neso :
You have the first wife to avoid Zina? I’m so confused
2025-12-27 13:11:03
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سماح ✨ :
Sis…these second, third, fourth wives were for a very specific purpose. These women were widows, orphans, lost their husbands at a time of war, etc. And Allah swt specifically requires that each wife be treated equally, but if the man cannot (which he likely will not be able to do so), then marry ONE. If you’re content with that risk, that’s completely fine, but keep that standard between you and Allah swt. If you want to be someone’s second, third or fourth pick, or that you marry a man who feels you as an individual is not enough, may Allah swt give you ease. That’s really sad though
2025-12-27 23:21:16
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PricklyPear99⁀➷ :
He can have the second wife but I don’t have to stay 🤷🏻♀️
2025-12-28 01:16:10
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Palma1014 :
What was prescribed to avoid Zina was fasting not polygamy. According to the Quran
2025-12-29 18:48:11
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bellaamoree :
he can get a second wife if he wants to meet Allah.
2025-12-27 20:16:32
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Mimo :
If he’s marrying a second wife, that’s gonna be his only wife cause I’m leaving
2025-12-31 01:08:19
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aysh.25 :
second wife is not for a man’s needs bffr
2026-01-18 20:39:38
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bubu_alhrbi :
Why can’t people normalize self control…
2026-01-27 06:40:25
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El Maestro :
why would you fear zina if you already have one wife? theres a reason fornication is lashes and adultery is the death penalty
2025-12-27 16:31:07
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hawa :
Or just stay loyal idk😭
2026-01-12 20:50:16
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Maria_Xavier :
🚫 temporary marriage
2026-01-11 19:35:08
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maisha :
And for the woman? 😂
2026-01-03 00:39:47
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Zuzu Z :
What about marrying a second husband? Desires run both ways.
2026-01-04 22:15:26
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Sarah :
Getting married won't stop a wondering man.
2025-12-27 21:12:07
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tee :
This is not LOVE !!!!
2026-01-02 15:27:13
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Big Dawg Eats :
No
2026-01-26 22:56:31
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Zahra Amsa :
Going against the first wife’s nikkah contract isn’t better tho.
2026-01-03 16:21:55
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jimmyneutronsb0llz :
But tell her, she has the right to leave if she doesn’t want this.
2026-01-08 02:08:42
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Aulon :
Surah An-Nisā’ — 4:3
“So marry women of your choice: two, three, or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then marry only one…”
A man can marry a second wife without asking permission from his first wife at all. And no its not a "it was different back then". This is a ruling for all times.
2026-01-06 09:19:34
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Who did??! :
No it’s not. Not all the time. A lot of times the first wife isn’t happy, she is socially and religiously forced to be ok.
2026-01-13 14:21:24
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thisdevilwearsprada :
I’d bring a man home for us both then
2025-12-30 05:20:41
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Name :
Fear divorce too
2025-12-29 07:35:49
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®️ 𝔾𝕆𝕆𝔻 𝔹𝕆𝕐 ✌︎㋡ :
All the women leaving - when is the last time you dressed up for your husband? (Not a party or outside). When is the last time you initiated w/o an argument before or after? When is the last time you feared Allah? Also this is coming from a guy who doesn’t want a 2nd wife. Or another 1st one. Marriage is a show now. Where one party (wife or husband) is the clown.
2026-01-22 14:29:33
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