And the person who brings it up over and over again has horror stories of their generosity being taken advantage of. 😌 It’s a vicious cycle or resentment and control
2025-12-27 16:06:59
79
Erica Lynn :
Gotta watch out for those invisible strings
2025-12-27 17:24:22
35
Chevy ✨ :
When people act like they do things out of the kindness of their hearts and then bring it up as a means to prove they’re above you somehow.. nah, I’m good. Never again, thanks.
2025-12-27 17:26:55
9
tinyanemo :
I don't like people paying for me because not only will some people hold it over your head, but some people will make it seemed like you begged them to pay for you and use it to gossip about you
2025-12-27 19:24:36
12
musicoreo :
It happened so much to me as a child that now baby I made a promise to never be in the position for someone to tell me I wouldn’t have if it wasn’t for xy&z
2026-02-20 18:58:26
2
Thisandthat217 :
Like why you wanna pay for me so bad?
2025-12-27 18:12:39
16
:) :
Oh nah 😫🤣 keep bringing it up THANKS!!! I be so grateful idc can’t nobody throw anything in my face. They be madder than what they tried to make me.
2025-12-27 17:18:13
2
🦁 :
I got cursed out once over a $2.75 cheese slice of pizza! Baby I’m GOOOOD
2025-12-27 15:37:12
58
No Cap :
Imagine having a parent tht does this🤦🏾♂️😭
2025-12-27 17:58:06
6
Lou the doll💋 :
I don’t let nobody buy or pay for anything unless it’s a gift.😭
2026-01-22 12:26:32
1
Wolf520 :
Nothing is free, you end up paying in some sort of way
2026-01-24 04:22:04
3
Way :
And it was usually a family member
2025-12-27 18:50:55
5
Draggghim$!$77 :
I particularly love when they give you a gift (they said was from God) but keep reminding you of how much it’s costing them to give it to you
2025-12-27 19:12:14
7
Olivia :
I don’t like it because I was having bday and Christmas presents being used against me as a means of control and shame since I was 4
2026-02-03 14:35:35
3
Alyssa Ashes :
They may pay for me but it costs me emotionally. 😭
2025-12-27 19:51:56
16
Carol :
The time they said that they would pay and didnt...🤣😂 ✨ NVM
2025-12-28 03:25:48
3
Dragula705 :
That
2026-02-21 19:59:46
1
Tearzzz333 :
My parents
2025-12-28 03:16:06
3
rainbowmonstersam :
or they think that = ;)
2026-01-04 16:00:28
0
Mara🕷️🩶 :
And because I watched my mother do everything all by herself and not ask for help❤️
2025-12-27 17:13:32
4
username1980200455 :
That happened to me for two socallled best friends paid for a birthday dinner
2025-12-28 02:37:44
1
Niki Dawood :
This is exactly why I have a nervous breakdown anytime people offer to pay for me
2026-02-21 01:21:45
1
mishu_isle :
Or they said they would and leave them with the bill
2026-01-23 14:36:04
2
X :
its like they bought you or something 😂
2025-12-28 04:23:24
2
To see more videos from user @jazheals, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.