@rev.sydney.finn: Replying to @Tofu_Karotte this is all coming from personal experience, I’m not a therapist. 🙂↔️ #datingadviceforwomen #singleinyour30s #datinginyour30s #relationshipadvice #redflags
I realized texting gives a hit of dopamine, you can’t use it as a way to determine connection. Pick up that phone.
2025-12-30 17:14:31
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meonz :
if texting is important to you, an important question to ask is "what kind of texter are you?" If you don't start there, you'll spiral 🥲
2025-12-28 00:53:52
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みお :
i fear this is common sense
2025-12-30 03:55:45
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My One Piece Journey :
The root of my issue is I have not experienced a real relationship long enough to know what is normal, and my nervous system is wired specifically to brace for the impact of being rejected. So yeah, she was online here and there but has not responded for a whole day, and that’s enough for my brain to immediately go to “she lost interest in me”
2026-01-03 09:47:36
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snarcusaurelius :
You’re the only coach out there who gives the nuanced perspectives that are good for the individual and their daring approach
2025-12-28 13:43:56
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Crystal 😜 :
And if he doesnt reply but shows up?! 😂
2025-12-28 19:18:23
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muffy crosswire :
You are one of the most thought-provoking creators on TikTok
2025-12-28 05:49:21
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Krystal👑 :
your relationship experience is a reflection of your subconscious programming. this is why patterns happen
2025-12-28 12:30:46
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dani9p7 :
Jesus. You don’t feel anxious if you are treated the right way 😅🤷🏻♀️
2026-01-16 21:27:22
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user4441577355981 :
What if you just started dating a guy (family friend) & his grandma has died. This is the third week with no contact. I was giving him space to cope & get his affairs in order & not to overwhelm him. Am I being ghosted? Or how long do I wait before I know he’s not interested?
2025-12-28 06:14:26
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Becks :
How do you stop bracing for rejection?
2025-12-28 07:18:07
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rkooky :
I’m a man but I’ve been getting over my anxious dating tendencies over the past year — your videos have been immensely encouraging!
2025-12-28 19:51:58
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B&AKira :
when we started talking texting was wild, it was intense, lots of talk around us being together, planning lots of dates, really consistent even when he had his kid. A week later it's completely died, no talk of wanting to go on dates, no talk of us being together, it's always his life is chaos and he's tired etc. The shift is too hard to ignore.
2025-12-28 10:43:15
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Tiger :
ladies if your like this you've got to heal .AP/ FA just saying 👌
2025-12-28 23:12:12
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_xotessa :
How can we start signaling yes!?😭 I feel like I’m struggling with this - I was just dating a guy for around 3 months and he would often tell me it doesn’t seem like I’m interested, when the whole time I thought I was showing interest and this (I think) led him to end things
2026-02-04 02:23:52
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Barmamma :
Sydney, I have to say a big “THANK YOU!” I removed all negative thinking, I put myself in a loving, vulnerable position and reached out to the guys that “fizzled” with their communication. You’re absolutely right, and now I have 2 dates this month!!! I am grateful, no more false advice from tiktok, I only trust you now
2026-03-18 01:21:25
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timesnewwoman25 :
How do you know if you’re signaling No?
2025-12-28 00:25:35
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juliabear 💫 :
Ugh you’re always right 🥲
2025-12-30 00:26:35
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Vee ☆ :
what do you mean he doesnt text or even see you? so you two are strangers right?
2025-12-29 21:19:52
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Oceanwispers786 :
love your thought process
2026-01-14 17:54:53
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mmmmmmlskej :
what to do if he says he likes you too and he says hes attracted to you he just doesn't want to start anything when he's still thinking about his ex but doesn't want her back?
2025-12-30 01:34:20
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🎶💜 Coll Rosey 💜🎶 :
Why would an avoidant block you for setting a boundary (I asked him to stop viewing my profile) after he discarded me? I want a video on this 😂
2026-01-04 17:57:51
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Mouse :
How do you signal that you’re into a man? I definitely been sending the wrong signs 😭 but I try hinting at being available like I’m free on the weekend.
2026-03-26 16:48:17
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sunnylaurenap :
This makes so much sense
2026-01-25 09:59:25
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