It’s so hard to unlearn and heal while it’s actively happening 💔🥹
2025-12-28 18:30:54
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pulengg :
“I am just like that”, njani!!! AND YOU’RE NOT DOING ANYTHING ABOUT IT?😭
2025-12-28 13:49:02
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Lethabo :
"Hurt people do better"
2025-12-28 17:49:23
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Nozzy :
We all have our demons its your responsibility not to bleed on others!!
2025-12-28 17:54:40
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Benjamin :
We should forgive our parents but not forget. Not forget to do better for our kids. The hard part is forgiving and living with them,but they are still your parents.
2025-12-28 13:18:32
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Lindz🧸 :
Hurt people, hurt people is an enabler for people to continue to hurt people!!
2025-12-29 19:16:01
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🦋Nicole🦋 :
Something I learnt from someone is that “it’s not your fault that something bad hurt you but it’s your fault from not choosing to heal from it “
2025-12-29 07:16:21
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sly😁 :
finally someone spoke my mind out
2025-12-29 07:00:59
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Lady_flower🌸 :
Told my former friend in our mid-twenties that, now it’s starting to become our fault, we’re at the where you can’t blame your parents, upbringing or circumstances. If you fail, it’s all on you
2025-12-28 19:38:21
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Lover of life ✨♥️ :
I hate the phrase too 😩😩 people use it as a manipulation tool! Thanks for this sis 🤍✨
2025-12-29 06:05:21
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sisa.mbengo :
I love your way of thinking, you articulate yourself so well ❤️
2025-12-28 16:37:46
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Kamo D. :
I used to use my past when I was being manipulative but I know that it’s really not an excuse anymore hey
2025-12-28 13:45:40
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Miss~Hermner 💙💍 :
Just be kind❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹no one got it easy
2026-01-18 06:05:08
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𝒵. :
I love the way you articulate yourself 🥹
2025-12-29 08:35:36
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Lesego Precious :
I live by this so much!🥰
2025-12-28 13:27:46
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Its Kerubo :
"All of us have been hurt" 💯
2025-12-30 10:41:14
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Slime 🧽 :
Honestly i feel sick every time i think of my family on how they treated me but i could never hurt someone to make my self feel better cause whyyyy ?? 🙃
2026-01-21 09:47:43
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Smart Mthethwa :
Your videos are therapy
2025-12-28 15:12:23
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Dr Khuli 🌸| Mental Health :
All of us are hurt people 👏🏾
2025-12-28 19:36:56
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Amara✨💵🎀 :
How Your Childhood Affects Your Adult Life.
Many of the things we do today, Didn’t just start today. They started way back. Your childhood is like the foundation of a house. If something was missing or shaky back then, it can show up later in ways you don’t even expect.
Let give an example: If you grew up around constant shouting, you might become one who loves conflict. If you had to “be strong alone”at an early age, you might find it hard to open up to people. And then you’ll just be thinking, “Why am I like this?” Meanwhile, your past is quietly influencing your present.
You must understand that your childhood may shape you, but it does not have to control you forever. You know that saying: "Your Past does not define you". So to solve this problem, Awareness is the first step.
Once you are aware of: Why you react a certain way, Why certain things trigger you. You can start changing it.
You don’t need to fix everything at once. Just start with: Being kinder to yourself, Not judging yourself and Learning how to respond to any situation you find yourself. You know Growth is a process.
The adult you is just trying to protect the younger you.🥹
2026-04-07 19:40:10
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marllo! :
Yho... Listening to this literally somehow jct healed me and now I hv a deeper understanding about who I must be to be better for myself-my wife-and kids... Thank you! 😭❤️
2025-12-28 13:10:49
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Fungai🪷 :
I love your content ☺️❤️
2025-12-28 18:44:35
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Lebuang.M🤍 :
kind to everyone expect the ones who hurt us or to everyone in general including them😢😢😔
2026-01-25 12:25:27
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Nokuthula🪷 :
"We don't choose where we come from but we choose who we become"
2025-12-29 14:05:46
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Shaÿ≈Shay :
Hurt people who heal, do better 👌
2025-12-30 05:21:24
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