@maa.te8: My husband and I have been married for 5 years and we had always enjoyed peace in our home. Two years after we got married we decided to start trying for kīds and I got pregnant with our dăughter. It was H£ll! The pregnancy, lăbour and delivery, postpărtum? I was in the trenches all through. A year after, he suggested trying for another chīld and I told him there was no way I was going through that again because I almost dīĕd the last time. He said he understood and we both agreed that if we felt strongly about more kīds still, we would consider adopting. Last year, my husband, his mother and a pregnant lady showed up in our home. My MIL said since I decided not to have any more children, her son has to try to have a boy and he is now expecting one with the lady. I was brøken beyond words and could not bring myself to forgive him despite his pleas. I threw myself into my work and my daughter and moved into the empty wing of the house with her. I was so dęprěssed but could not let it show. I could not move out of the house totally because we bought it together and my mum wărned me not to leave before I decided if I wanted to legally dīvørce so I don’t lose that investment. My daughter and I stayed on our side and went about our lives separate from the new madam. He took over school runs and most extracurriculars so as to stay close to her and I had no problems with this since I could not stand being in the same room with him for too long. Unfortunately, the mother dīed in chīldbirth leaving the newborn and coincidentally it was the same week I petītioned for dīvorce. Apparently the ląte mother’s family have refused to take the bąby boy in and so has my soon to be ex MIL. They all came to beg and convince me to add him to mine and raise him. I firmly said no, it’s not my baby and I won’t raise him. I think my soon to be ex husband is having a hard time being the primary caregiver and working. He looks drained every time and is constantly changing nannies. He keeps begging me to reconsider the dīvørce but if I’m being honest with myself I don’t think I can love that bąby wholeheartedly. I am dępressed and I don’t know why. Is there any way to get out of this because sometimes I just feel tired of everything and I feel like nobody loves me, including my family. Extended family on all sides have been calling me to beg and subtly implying that I’m doing too much seeing as there is no co wife in the picture anymore. I’m just biding my time until we’re legally dīvørced so I can sell my part of the asset that binds us and leave the country with my daughter Copied from The reelsvoice Podcast #trending #viral #marriage #relationshipgoals #tiktoknigeria

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