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Coco Bijoux Ama :

Sounds like he's been taking her for granted for years

beltroyal :

Feel like there are details and additional information we are missing here. I can’t imagine this behavior is new …

Abu :

With a year of notice he couldn’t put anything together? This is wild.

jp__bryan :

I'm not rich but not even a birthday dinner date. That's truly sad

sexywickedwoman :

“We don’t have financial issues” yeah that’s all I needed to know!💀

MurrayMae :

I had a boyfriend years ago who was broke on my bday but still drove around to my favorite fast food places to get all my favorite things then we had a picnic in the park with candles of Taco Bell, French fries and ice cream and honestly, it was the best! It’s about the effort and being seen!

zivile001 :

And you put up with that for 20 YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!! HELL NO!

Adeogemua💄 :

This is definitely not the first time he’s giving low effort.

Bongi❤️ :

It hates her

Dr Banana :

He doesn’t care. It’s time to move on.

achu_plug :

If you show a man that you can survive in darkness, he will never show you the light

Fifi 91 :

😤😤😤😤 man are useless shame . and when we cheat it's a problem also 😤🤷🏾🤷🏾

Cynthia :

The fight was strategic

kerenhappuch :

Yeaaaaa, he’s gotten too comfortable. Time to shake things up!

anah_chris :

Laziness in a relationship is so bad! You don’t even have to cheat, this alone would crash things😭

Kcirc :

this is why I don't leave my bday up to chance... whatever you have planned is an addition but I'm gonna make sure I plan my own main event... he'd be lucky if he's even invited 😂

OC :

you wouldn't divorce over this...he's been like this for years and it was the last straw

Fae :

Yes, it IS that deep!!!!

BellaArien :

TakeittoHell :

😂🤣He hasn't SEEN HER in 20years, she allowed throughout the years the minimal effort from him, and because of this he didn't feel it necessary to do anything. Now she's resentful but the ball was left in his court and he CHOOSE to do nothing. That says EVERYTHING, he doesn't believe she will leave. If I was her I would get the divorce papers without his knowledge, I would plan financially, then I would simply pack one day, leave divorce papers on table & block. I wouldn't say a word😂🤣

Tope :

then they say "she's overreacting " or "the divorce came out of nowhere". Tiny drops make an ocean. If something means alot to your partner, it doesn't matter if you don't see it as sth so serious, you have to do it!! If it makes them happy, do it!! When will people learn this? You love people how they want to be loved and not how you think they should be loved

Nabi-Choi-San⁷ :

She took too much time honestly

Shally ♥️ :

Some men marry people they don’t like fr

Lilly-Alyce :

If you want to know how your man feels about you, wait for your birthday

Sherri_Tosh :

I wouldn't divorce him. I would stay married to him and let him watch me live my best life without bothering with him. 😊😊😊