I wonder if this is why relationships with ppl that remind us of our family dynamics are so intoxicating - because those are implicitly going to center resonance
2025-12-30 18:03:46
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latiigre :
As a neurodivergent who needs hard truth and clarity all the time this is soothing. I just wish I knew this earlier in life
2025-12-29 03:19:41
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_tonyge_ :
Resonance had me blinded while reality was beating me 😩
2025-12-31 17:04:25
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Den Gard :
“Not capable of meeting you in reality.”
2025-12-30 09:46:29
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Caitlin, Millennial Teacher ✨ :
resonance gets to observe but reality gets the final vote ✍🏼✍🏼✍🏼✍🏼✍🏼
2025-12-29 14:58:01
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Spiritual Growth Teacher :
Curiously after eight years of being regulated and not reading the room for what it really was, I had an epiphany and left the relationship gave it up without expecting the other person to change. In fact, I said that out loud I said this is about me and what I want to create my life. You don’t have to change. I just don’t wanna be in a relationship with you anymore. At that moment, everything shifted and the person showed up for me in exactly the way that I wanted them to when I put my nervous system first they responded and matched it. If I had known after day three, how to respond to this person instead of eight years I just wonder how much expansion, exploration and joy I would’ve felt. In any case the story ended with what I desired in the first place.
2025-12-30 20:54:10
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amberstarrRN :
You have a brilliant way of communicating concepts exactly when I need to hear it. Thank you for your wisdom 🙏
2025-12-29 00:09:21
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havehillwilltravel :
The closest I’ve ever gotten to romantic love is a trauma bond 🫤
2025-12-29 08:12:22
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Akeyl :
Choosing reality is not giving up on Magic is so validating to hear because it’s exactly how I sustain living within this realm, this detrimental filter that is capitalism
2025-12-29 16:53:36
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Goddess Dana :
Living on the residue of resonance 🤯
2025-12-29 08:32:54
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steampunk_vibrat0r :
Damn well I want chemistry AND a relationship that makes sense 😭 cuz I tried being logical and I felt nothing and missed the feeling of falling in love ugh are both possible
2025-12-30 22:59:29
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kaikaiohwhy :
I’ve only seen two of your videos. And they make me want to watch all of your content, it is immaculate and so spot on. You’re doing wonderful work ✨
2026-01-15 10:33:54
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actuallymaud :
As a psychologist who is struggling to leave a relationship, thank you. I needed this.
2025-12-29 11:54:54
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fjules :
‘Living off the residue is resonance than the data of reality…’ This! 🔥
2025-12-29 10:29:46
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AtlasKaizen :
“Resonance, is an invitation to observe. Reality gets the final vote.” 🤝
2026-01-22 00:32:45
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ornamentalcattle :
A lot of this can apply to friendships too
2026-01-17 17:49:35
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Justiceforfruitsalad :
As a neurodivergent person, this was very helpful!!!! Thank you!!!
2025-12-30 20:56:17
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TheSubtleShift :
I’m loving all these videos. Pattern recognition is so important
2026-01-16 01:31:32
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HuskyLove :
wow. I’m so glad i found you. Thank you for explaining so well life! ❤
2026-01-13 14:04:06
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joni :
Phenomenal post! Such incredible insight. I’ve watched 4xs. Thank you!
2025-12-29 15:56:48
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Moxie Maverick :
Your takes are always so. damn. grounding. I appreciate you. 🫶🏻
2025-12-28 22:35:06
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nadiadidit_ :
I needed to hear this bc for some reason it doesn't work when I say it to myself 😅😩
2025-12-30 09:02:00
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alliplanted :
I wish I had realized this in my last relationship. I was so focused on who they were the first several months that when their inconsistencies and defensive started showing up I blamed myself. I stayed too long because of it. And then eventually they just left abruptly and without a conversation
2026-01-22 16:56:45
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Mike :
Always on point right when I need it thank you kristen
2025-12-28 21:53:38
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Rachel Knowles :
This made me order your book today. Thank you.
2025-12-29 20:02:01
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