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Why was it always that she didn’t know who I was anymore
2025-12-30 18:57:48
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Mira Rakic :
No, the best way is no contact !
2026-02-02 15:39:24
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kinscho5k :
I had to pause your video and immediately write down “In healthy families there are no scapegoats and no one is blamed for having emotions.” That blew my mind and I needed to hear it
2025-12-30 03:49:11
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dangit012 :
It’s so difficult in the moment.
2025-12-30 01:38:25
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Emily👩🏼🩷💛💙👩🏻 :
Is TikTok glitching out like this for anyone else?
2025-12-31 14:03:58
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chicquie :
it's a sketch and I still felt my pressure rise
2025-12-31 01:30:17
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Healing Lab :
You don’t need to keep doing the labour explaining to parents or anyone what they are going to misunderstand anyway. Waste of energy and time
2025-12-30 12:31:45
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Bass Henitentiary :
I want to say thank you so much. you are part of why im becoming a better me. im 52 and only shut my mother off 2 years ago when I started counseling. but what if your daughter is behaving in a similar way?
2025-12-30 01:19:38
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theblondefoodie :
I love these so much. Such a huge help.
2025-12-30 01:17:34
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sunnypatti :
When I talked to my mom on Christmas day, she was at a family gathering at my aunt's house (I live 3 hrs away in another state). I knew she was upset that we didn't come down for the holiday, but we were there for a week in September and it just wasn't in our schedule or budget to go again. Anyway, Mom says to me, "you're the only one not here." Meanwhile, I have a sister on the other side of the country and another one who lives about 12 hrs away... they were not there either. I'm the oldest and only moved away for the 1st time ever last year 🙄 I did not jump on that guilt trip!
2025-12-30 12:26:59
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Chriska :
my opinion is the more you respond the more they find something to say..
change the subject or leave the room or stay silent and sip on your drink..✨
2025-12-30 14:13:14
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DC Addict :
Story of my life
2025-12-30 01:17:09
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Vivian33 :
‘You are NOT in trouble’ that hit
2025-12-31 15:34:50
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A.Honey :
Thank you for teaching us the life skills we all desperately need
2025-12-30 06:14:14
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Ginah :
The first line was effectively what mom said to me verbatim.
2025-12-31 05:03:42
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Glassesiscooler :
If I say “im not gonna argue” she find a excuse to still argue🥰
2026-02-11 18:47:38
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REI MARI 🪽🔮 :
“Do you think you haven’t also changed?”
2025-12-30 19:48:42
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Marie T :
my mom used to say "you're so negative!". so I took that to heart till I heard others say just the opposite
2025-12-31 16:27:17
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janemcart :
Not even worth the conversation. Just gray rock
2026-01-01 04:02:40
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JadeIsJoyful :
I need you in my ear 👂 belly breath! stay in the body!
2025-12-30 01:39:47
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Monae :
this is so hard with ocd because I feel horrible during these conversations and when they talk to me like this. but later, I'll talk to myself an convince myself and I am the problem and that I'm worth nothing. because what if I am the one ruining everything and maybe they are doing nothing wrong?
2025-12-30 03:40:13
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camochick :
I appreciate posts like this - it’s nice to have these videos to refer to when I’m stuck in a situation like this… Thank you so much❣
2025-12-30 04:28:06
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Britney :
this word for a word what my mom says to me . Kind of scary.
2026-01-09 14:04:16
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jennetted123 :
Wow. Thank you Dr. Nicole.🥰 I went no contact with my Mom cuz this is EXACTLY how she is but, thank you for helping me with the tools I need to help mend the relationship.
2026-01-04 17:11:45
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allisonmoore557 :
your video started glitching while I was watching this. the universe is telling me something
2025-12-30 17:38:37
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