@pdxazzy:

Dyłan :

Life is life why avoid communication before conflict to create conflict you don’t want because if trying to avoid it by not making simple sense out of a simple situation it it’s too much say that and say you need to take a break step back and think some don’t understand it makes them stronger and smarter so why avoid human interaction when it’s likely for the better🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️guess I’ll never know because some don’t understand how to use words without being disrespectful when ticked off snap I just look for logical reasons to situations not because I don’t want to or because I said so those are petty self centered imo because I use logic to see reason not just because when I see a reason I’ll ask a person if that is why they’re feeling a certain way or I’ll ask why to understand on an emotional reason and the reason for feeling said way about something then fair enough I get you I can sympathize but no explanation I’m just going to question till I understand or see the person I’m talking to is done with the situation / sick of it so if ion understand imma ask again even if you’re mad I won’t pick up on it unless it’s said or very obvious because I grew up with people who were a bit to loud and extreme at points which has been too much for years but I’m much better than the asshole who has caused my stress panic anxiety traumatized me as a child disregarding my feelings and emotions as a kid being dismissive saying I don’t know what stress is and threatening my life yeah a couple swears is a lot better of a reaction than that bs because imo a couple swears I don’t get this shi wtf taking a break then returning to the conversation when calm simple and smart/innovative I just choose to think about the situations while picture when lots of people only focus on themselves just find balance or be stressed a majority of the time I may be talking out my ass but if so my ass is talk g from experience🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️