@neyawashere_: Why are daughters always seen as “difficult” but sons are called “easy”? Are boys actually easier… or are they just not being parented? #unpopularopinion #parenting #accountability #boymom #girlmom

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roseayyyye24
J. Rose :
They are hard if your actually raising them
2025-12-30 04:50:33
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d199775
deedeeJewel :
My friend’s mom will say my friend was the hardest to raise cuz she was the girl, meanwhile my friend is a high school AND college graduate, no kids, with her own car, own apartment, a full time travel nurse, has no crimimal recoed and never had one as a kid, nor did she ever had behavioral issues or get in any trouble as a kid or teen, she is and always been a good person. And her two brothers both had multiple kids w/ multiple bms before the age of 20, extensive criminal records before the age of 18, both brothers were in and out of juvie even before high school, neither graduated high school, neither of them have custody of their kids, both still live with their mom, neither have jobs, neither have cars, neither have money, and both be in and outta jail to this day. Yet because my friend was a girl, her mom claims it was harder to raise her.
2026-01-01 10:07:42
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destinywilliams554
Destiny Williams :
“Easier to raise”, or easier to neglect 😩 that’s why grown men got there issues frfr. They are emotional damaged and frustrated. They aren’t being raised there being watched 😅
2025-12-30 04:46:22
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xochitl99x
Xochitl :
Recent studies show, NOW girls are preferred more than boys…. It’s mainly because girls will most likely take care of you in your old age😂😂 I’m just assuming here, this is just my therory, it’s because boys are NOT getting picked so that means less are getting married so that means they have no wife to exploit to force the wife to take care of the in laws….👀👀But a blood daughter will most likely take care of her parents no matter if she is married or not. So I think that is why people are now preferring girls over boys😐😐🤣🤣
2025-12-30 18:46:24
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agentkiara
Agent Kiara :
I have both and neither is easy 😭 but with boys you definitely have to actually nurture and train them right when they are young. Stay in their head and business and talk to them. Do not wait until they are 8 years or older because at that point it’s too late and they only care about what their friends think.
2026-02-03 04:18:25
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titustwoo
Proverbs 31 :
I was told it’s the girls mouth that’s the problem , girls are sassy . With boys I’ve learned I have to keep repeating myself and I have to give step by step instructions or directions for things to get done …
2025-12-31 01:09:09
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m00nlightt
moon :
Make centered women usually say that dumb shyt 😒
2026-02-20 04:44:42
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dollydagger10
Dolly D :
I was the kind of girl that would throw a brick through someone’s window anger issues, big time as a teenager and early adulthood lol well I’m working on it
2026-01-07 05:23:07
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vanessas_vanity
Vanessas_vanity :
raising kids period is hard. but it takes patience, love, empathy, time, energy to raise them correctly. our sons are 16 and 10, and we never bave an issue with disrespect, violent behavior, ect. what is wrong is parents arent correcting behavior from the beginning. you have to also lead by example.
2026-01-10 14:31:18
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nikkiandthechaos
Nikkiandthechaos :
I have 3 girls and 1 boy, girls are definitely easy. I’ve just always loved being a girl mom
2026-01-18 17:19:25
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brownbeauty1994
K J :
As a mom of both I completely agree
2026-01-02 14:36:47
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the_star_show
✨☆𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓢𝓽𝓪𝓻 𝓢𝓱𝓸𝔀☆✨™️ :
I have a son and trust me it’s not easy
2025-12-30 05:31:07
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cristalc0414
Cristal0414 :
As a mom twin of boy and girl. Boys are harder to raise.
2026-02-03 15:33:13
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jassyreloadeduncensored3
JassyReloadedUncensored🖤🔱❤️ :
You are exactly correct
2026-01-22 21:40:07
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nursepretty24
El Kane :
Its absolutely this! My mom said girls were harder but me and my sister are both successful and my brothers….well. You know the story
2026-01-29 19:25:46
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nekopreon
Neko🦁Preon⭐️ :
Lord please bless me with a girl 👧
2026-01-16 20:07:33
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iammereland
iammereland :
That is so true and they need their emotions met at a young age 💯
2025-12-30 05:09:54
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misssungoddess
SunGoddess :
U cooking
2025-12-30 04:58:08
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keneiahrenee
Keneiah Reneé :
As someone who had a boy first, boys are wayyy harder like wtf😂😂😂😂them folks definitely neglected them and let them do whatever, bc raising a man is hard no wonder it's soo many dumb ones
2026-02-03 14:15:08
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injoyable3
InJOYable :
They really aren’t I have 4 boys and 1 girl potty training was 🔥🔥🔥🔥 with them but potty training her was a breeze.
2026-01-24 20:41:54
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sugadumplin_
Sammy ☺️ :
And they aren’t even being raised to completion because wives and girlfriends are having to pick up where parents left off.
2026-02-05 18:23:04
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sh0rtybynature
sh0rtybynature :
💯 This definitely needs to be talked about more.
2026-01-18 05:03:21
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rakatanka92
rakatanka :
To be honest, I give girls a little more grace. We have lived with our hormones for years and still act a fool sometimes. A girl just starting off with them don’t even know what’s going on. But some how at 12 they are ‘smelling themselves’? No.
2026-02-09 14:41:23
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biglittlecrazyone
Danie.Dani.Dan :
Boys are easier to ignore and neglect. All children need the same amount of individualized care. Many parents will pacify and ignore poor behavior in boys and mask it as love and favor. It's not, it's neglect.
2026-02-03 14:21:21
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brenyamalaysia
brenyamalaysia :
I have two daughters and a son my girls are so easy my son not so much whoever said boys were easier lied 😫😂
2026-01-24 11:54:17
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