it’s literally exhausting being the oldest daughter. 😔
2025-12-30 17:18:50
233
Kari Ferrarii (CAR-EE) :
I set soooo many boundaries this year. Now I'm depressed and lonely 🙃😭
2025-12-31 05:44:36
53
autisticdinosaurrr :
I quit my role as eldest daughter. I’m retiring. Y’all can figure it out 🤣
2025-12-31 18:20:26
22
savvychosen :
You in my business with every one of these videos!! 😩💪
2025-12-30 20:53:37
36
Amaka :
That’s my problem, I speak up too much.. I’m the mirror they don’t want to look at so the avoid me cause I tell them like it is
2026-02-02 20:53:43
2
Julie M. :
Can we make a Private FB Group? For all of us?!
2026-01-02 04:10:08
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beloolaaa :
I stopped keeping the peace and stopped keeping quiet but now I’m considered too reactive and too emotional
2026-02-24 02:08:38
1
malkia.Abundance :
Been therapeutically learning to "not be angry" when holding people accountable. Your page has helped me understand myself more deeper! I've always been named as "the loudest, trouble maker and confrontational" Coz I've always held family/relatives/friends accountable. 2024 I distanced myself from talking. Thanks for the reminder 2026 to use my voice 💜
2025-12-30 23:47:14
1
old lady :
exactly
2026-02-23 01:57:48
1
Aquarius72 :
Listen 💯🥹❤️👑✨🦋
2025-12-30 17:48:14
2
gratia_mezzosoprano :
I spoke up this Christmas and it blew up in my face... Badly..
It's off my chest, that's what matters
2025-12-30 22:48:30
1
An.Eve :
I stopped talking to my family all of them when i was so stressed 😭 they didn’t do anything 😭
2025-12-30 18:01:44
42
Pretty Princess :
I started to speak up this year and while I was looked at as the problem in my family (what else is new?) I've never felt more at peace with myself. I'm continuing the habit in 2026 and beyond because I've never slept so soundly.
2025-12-30 20:11:19
21
S. Smith :
Eldest Daughter, 1st Grandchild, the only one not married and no kids. Thank u .
2025-12-30 18:52:25
20
Des ⁷ :
Eldest daughter here it’s exhausting aside from dealing with my dad who is the black sheep in his family they’ve made me one too. I’m ok with the peace and focusing on myself in 2026 and to let me heal from shit
2025-12-30 19:52:06
14
alisj1969 :
I am gradually passing a lot of responsibility to my younger brother.
2025-12-30 17:21:20
8
elisabrew :
Love this, I just don’t know how to do it when my in-laws use me as the scapegoat and I have too much respect for my husband to disrespect his family or isolate myself.
2025-12-30 17:22:59
8
Shani’ Marie 💕 :
🥹 I do matter
2025-12-30 18:01:20
8
suetrahan :
I loved how you started this conversation!!
2025-12-30 21:17:09
7
theorinbeck :
Thank you so much maam ❤️I promise
2025-12-30 17:20:26
6
revolt_to_evolve :
I moved flats, it happened to be around a date that had been planned for us to meet up. My siblings and my mum. I couldn’t go because of the move. Now if any of them were in this position I would have offered to help them. Guess how many of them offered to help me.
2025-12-30 20:52:59
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HeyGirlHey :
I've never kept the peace. I always speak my mind and don't care who feelings get hurt. I love ruffling feathers. It's so free(ING).
At home, work and anywhere I go
2025-12-30 18:39:11
5
Tequila💕Tequilla :
Thank you ❤
2025-12-30 19:00:01
4
Radiant Chocolate 💫 :
I've been working on this since this past summer
2025-12-30 17:54:38
4
Muse’💐beya👸🏻 :
🌷🌷🌷
2025-12-30 19:49:20
3
KDB :
💯
2025-12-30 20:05:59
3
Mrs_doctor_mom :
Yes ma’am and thank you!
2025-12-30 20:09:20
3
arey971 :
You be too loud 😭
2025-12-30 18:13:52
3
Deeeeee ✨ :
Chakras are my language!!! Heard you!!!
2025-12-31 03:06:06
3
Tlaine :
Amen
2025-12-30 17:45:32
3
Warrior :
I’m not the ONE!!!!
2026-01-01 19:26:56
2
The world of Val B. :
Whewwwww a stranger which was the cashier told me that the color shirt i was wearing that day told her that I need to speak up more for myself with my throat chakra 😭😭😭. I have let ppl get away with things wayyyyyy too long!!!!
2026-01-01 20:06:10
2
Myra Melendez :
Eldest daughter here ♥️thank you so much!
2025-12-30 17:37:07
2
TabD :
Well said. I’m the youngest but it still applies z
2025-12-30 19:03:59
2
Thalassia Rose :
my father was just diagnosed with cancer. and both he and my mother still have to audacity and strength to keep treating me like a child and dont respect my partner at all... im done with the bs
2025-12-30 20:17:45
2
justlivin1222🇸🇳📚 :
Literally
2025-12-30 20:12:49
2
gagirlforbes :
👏👏👏
2025-12-30 19:29:05
2
melisa :
You’ve been attacking me nonstop 😭💔
2025-12-31 21:46:15
1
jassunfiltered 💓 :
Thank you for this more than you know 🥹🥹😩😩
2025-12-31 17:59:36
1
CurlsbyArielle🌿 :
Yes ma’am 🫡
2026-01-01 17:52:14
1
BIG MAMA 🥳🩷 :
I plan on using my words wisely but I am gonna use them
2026-01-01 20:00:06
1
Smut Reading Hobbit 420 :
People pleasing this year but I’m the people 🥺
2026-01-02 05:34:07
1
Mrs Alexander❤️ :
I be already started speaking up Jan 1
2026-01-20 21:39:45
1
Ruva's Abouts😉 :
Im loving it here🥰
2025-12-31 04:43:03
1
starrmonet1 :
I have to keep the peace or I’m going to jail/hell. I
2025-12-31 03:56:41
1
Kasha :
I love you dr Ike. Great message 💪
2025-12-31 04:23:16
1
Shellie Willis :
I remember being referred to as the black sheep and had no idea that was how I was described as.
2025-12-31 04:26:43
1
athomewithkay :
Yes!!
2025-12-31 04:35:05
1
Shannon | Slow Living :
Can you share more on how we might stop doing this? Love your content
2025-12-31 03:49:28
1
🦋🫶🏻Mama Butterfly🫶🏻🦋 :
I needed this
2025-12-31 12:55:25
1
Britt :
2026- the answer is NO.
2026-02-02 02:19:25
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