@palaciosophy: Again, I realize this is disconcerting news, but it’s the indiscriminate truth…don’t shoo the messenger. The silver lining is once you do have that awareness, once you’re able to overcome that familiarity and hopes and potential of him, you’ll make the right move every single time bc you know in your soul, that man has only changed his marketing, not his product. You’ll get to the point where his motives, his anything, are powerless over your peace. But it all starts with that one choice. Bye. Original “I picked you…” quote from @Tonight's Conversation #datinglife #relationshipproblems #selfawareness #discernment #exes

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shan.m57
Shan :
So true
2026-10-10 05:26:44
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j_funmia_
J_funmia :
“I picked you because you picked me over you” 😳 Let that one sink in……
2025-12-31 03:06:06
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amypayne2326
Amy Payne ❌ :
My husband is trying right now he is changing. I don’t believe him. He’s trying to keep access. He has abused me for years. I’m moving on. I choose me.
2026-01-02 02:42:06
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basiapark595
baskap36 :
When my 22 year long marriage was hanging by a thread, he finally started doing all the things I begged for for over a decade. I was shocked to discover that my heart remained icy cold. I was actually extremely irritated and resentful that he was capable all along…. Anyhow, after of almost a year of real change I said I had to leave anyways, as I didn’t know how to feel anything positive toward my ex. We said our final goodbyes. And guess what: he STOPPED doing everything he was doing for that year of change. He was only trying to earn me back, but did not mean it.
2025-12-31 05:16:00
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blood.velvet.reliquary
Blood ∞ Velvet Reliquary :
A man’s biggest fear is facing himself.
2025-12-31 05:57:22
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entropy_girl
Entropy_Girl :
Changed the marketing, not the product... perfect description!
2025-12-30 19:48:51
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vanessampersonal
VanessaM :
realizing that men will never be the thing we've grown up and believed they are (loving, romantic, protective) and that they'll always be strategic, manipulative and selfish is a hard truth to come to terms with but it does eventually get rid of the desire to find 'the one' someday because the person I'd been waiting for doesn't exist
2026-01-01 16:39:58
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mybiz80
Noneofyourbiz :
People DO NOT change! They learn to change behaviors temporarily
2025-12-31 13:39:41
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golden._lotus
Golden Moon :
this is why no contact is the only action.
2025-12-31 08:58:06
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28stars_
LMB :
He comes back he doesn’t respect you.
2025-12-30 23:32:51
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kimberlylynn_2
Kimberly :
Or they just change partners because the new person doesn’t know them or hold them accountable. 🤷‍♀️
2025-12-31 16:58:06
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gihan_was_here
Gih@n :
As I heard a psychiatrist once say. His mindset is “how much can I give you to value me over your self respect?😬
2025-12-31 19:59:35
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charms369
Charms :
Yes but why does all responsibility have to fall on the woman
2025-12-31 11:45:51
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borderlinebored.em
borderlinebored.eM :
I told him I cant love him anymore because his love requires me losing myself, I wont do that anymore.
2025-12-31 02:53:05
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someonefromawarmclimate
🫶🏼 :
Most relationships is build on a woman’s trauma wound plus codependency. Eg. abandonment wound= a man that chooses you+codependency that can keep a relationship going for years.
2025-12-31 07:16:38
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micuentadetiktok
Almodovar, MD :
STOP FALLING FOR THE POTENTIAL OF HIM. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹
2026-01-18 21:20:31
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dakinidatter
dakinidatter :
Yeah yeah, let him “change” but stay unimpressed long enough and observe. When he understands that change doesn’t impress you, he will quickly go back to his old ways and this is how you tell that no real change ever happened
2026-02-06 22:16:08
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ashefongugu
ashefongugu :
They don’t change. It’s a ploy they use to keep u from leaving. If u stay, they revert back to they ways
2025-12-31 08:05:39
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davidjacksonii19
David Jackson II :
True. Men don’t change for women. They change when they take responsibility for themselves. Therapy every week for almost a year changed me and it showed me I needed to leave, not stay. I’m not going back either.
2026-01-02 05:34:17
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karishmadsouza8
Karishma ❤️ :
True healing is accepting that you are not the right person for someone.
2026-02-11 15:23:25
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losoftlyblunt
LoSoftlyBlunt :
The small things in the beginning become the reason you leave in the end.
2026-01-31 22:49:00
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zandie_zee97
zandie_zee97 :
I’m learning to stop blaming people for how they mistreat me. I’m taking responsibility for what I allow. I am in charge of my life, not them.
2026-01-30 18:05:39
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mleone49
Michelle :
This is so spot on. And this is the work so many women need to do, the work I did: FIRST finding self worth, acknowledging your own needs and beginning to fill them. We not only allow his existence, we FEED it, by filling our OWN need for performance or over-giving because that feels familiar and safe. Process that to get to the other side. 💖💖💖
2026-01-26 16:28:56
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