@sadiereevesstevens: You would think that the receptionists have some kind of protocol for informing first time moms who don’t know what they’re doing😭 whatever…now I know I guess #obgyn #firsttimemom #pregnant #pregnancy #sadiereeves

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kristenlowers
Kristen :
A lady on the phone put me off so bad I canceled my appointment with them because I was just like why would you say that to me?🙃
2025-12-31 19:31:02
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lawdhammersey
Lawd Hammersey :
I’d just lie and say I was 8 weeks. They can prove me right or wrong at the appointment
2026-01-02 18:19:59
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terra.tanton.11
terra.tanton.11 :
I don’t see any of the nurses who actually take the phone calls in this chat. Wonder why? 👀
2026-01-01 19:19:07
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kaylamfisher_
kaylamfisher_ :
I called and said “I have six positive pregnancy tests in front of me” and the girl goes “well what are you needing to be seen for?” and I was like “I guess to see the doctor?? I’ve never been pregnant before” and she goes “you just start prenatal care” like OK AND WHAT IS THAT
2026-01-02 23:49:38
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jayshaaaaa
jaysha 🤍 :
when i’m at the ob office waiting for my appt & they get calls they are so mean it’s like guys if this is our first how are we supposed to know 😭
2025-12-31 21:44:30
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slaywkay
Slay with Kay :
This is why you places like planned parenthood and pregnancy centers are so great. They will test you, are often hooked in with ultrasound or partner with a place so you can get your first ultrasound for free, and they give proof of pregnancy so you can get insurance or Medicaid and then see an actual ob.
2026-01-02 02:52:06
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rach3l.a
Rachel :
Wait WHY have so many women had bad experiences making their first OB appointments!? Healthcare in America is soooo so SO incredibly broken smh I’m sorry to all women who have experienced this ☹️🥺
2026-01-01 07:45:15
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gabykreik
Gaby :
These comments huurrrtt. I’m an OBGYN appointment scheduler and I can’t imagine treating patients like this. Generally, for my practice, I ask the first day of their last menstrual period. That is what we have to go off of. From there, we do a confirmation of pregnancy appointment between 6-8 weeks from that date. If a patient has irregular periods, or does not know their LMP date, I schedule first available. At the confirmation appointment, we do a UA, bloodwork, and they meet with the provider to answer any questions the patient may have. From there we schedule the first ultrasound between 8-12 weeks. Usually closer to the 8-10 wk mark though. The bloodwork can also give us an indication of how far along a patient is as well. Ugh. I wish so many people didn’t have bad experiences. I’m so sorry that was your first impression!
2026-01-02 15:54:08
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autumnp3yt0n
autumnp3yt0n :
I didn’t get to see a doctor until I was nearly 20 weeks and that’s “too far along” for some doctors but NOBODY was willing to see me and made it so difficult 😭😭
2026-01-01 15:29:48
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mshnoy
H’24✨ :
If an OBGYN receptionist doesn’t understand irregular periods, that’s a problem 🤷🏻‍♀️
2026-01-02 01:34:20
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jasminehculp
jasmine culp :
As an OBGYN CMA my office doesn’t usually do ultrasounds before 8 weeks UNLESS mom’s period is irregular … you genuinely cannot see much on an ultrasound before 8 weeks, but not everyone knows that! So sorry you had that experience. Also, even if cycle is regular we do pregnancy confirmation visits with bloodwork & whatnot
2026-01-01 09:15:35
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victoriabartelini
Victoria :
Well I called my gynecologist ..so embarrassing 😃
2026-01-01 07:07:33
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jnuhcole_
Justine Ratliff :
Just imagine how they treat you when you have fertility issues and you’re trying to get a referral from them. It’s a nightmare
2025-12-31 20:42:32
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mms0313
Maggie :
It’s also wild to me that so many of the “dangers” of pregnancy are during the first trimester and the doctor doesn’t see you until almost the second trimester. I understand they can’t get a good image or heartbeat until a certain point, but I feel like they could at least do the “Here’s what you need to know about pregnancy and taking care of yourself” spiel right away
2026-01-02 13:29:27
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b3llagarn
bella garn :
this is a universal experience girl!! i promise it sucks!!! and as a teen mom i was judged from get go :/
2025-12-31 19:32:46
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explore_with_jess
Jessica Evans :
I called our hospital I wanted to deliver at, the lady was like omg how exciting congrats! got all my info to start my account, sent me to the right office, and they were SO nice helping me. I hate that not everyone gets that!!
2026-01-01 18:40:55
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emmaweston0922
emmawes :
I feel so lucky, my girl was so nice! I’m sorry you had these experiences. I have heard most are like that 😆
2025-12-31 20:04:59
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shelbiemiranda
SHELBIE :
Idk why so many offices are like this. They expect you to already know how it works. You’re excited and they just kinda ruin the moment.🥺
2026-01-02 04:17:41
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sambottari
Sam Bottari :
You gotta be more direct with doctors offices!! So when I got pregnant my second time around, I just scheduled and appointment online. For first prenatal appointment.
2026-01-01 03:55:03
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ana.maria32978
Ana Maria :
Its not awkward idk what you expected from them a celebration?
2026-01-02 18:08:17
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rhiannongbasden
Rhiannon Basden :
This happened to me i was 18. After the first call i started saying “I got a positive test a few weeks ago”. That helped, but it’s annoying I had to lie 😒
2025-12-31 20:32:28
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tayandtippy
tayandtippy :
(Never been pregnant) But I have always been baffled by the pushback from trying to get ANY female health care tests and screenings that they don’t deem necessary or urgent. It’s like… IM LITERALLY TRYING TO PAY YOU MONEY AND USE MY INSURANCE PLAN STOP FIGHTING ME DO YOU NOT WANT MONEY??
2026-01-02 18:43:29
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itslauraperez_
Laura Perez :
Remind me to do research ! My thought process would’ve been the same lol
2025-12-31 19:28:05
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nastyboykerm
Kerm :
I’m an OBGYN receptionist and I always tell the girlies what to expect at their first visit. also ask if they need any prenatals or have any questions because I hear experiences like this so often 🥺 womens healthcare should be helpful
2026-01-02 21:13:50
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