My husband had never done laundry or dishes before he met me. (😬) he wanted to learn because it’s a thing adults should know and do. So he asked. If there’s something new in the situation—a different dish, a new garment—he asks! And then he acts based on the answer! You know, like a grown-up!
2026-01-01 06:43:14
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RockLwera :
No one has ever needed to show me how to load the dishwasher I just looked at all the slots and was like yes I can see where everything is supposed to go
2026-01-04 16:19:33
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bushrkyfscl :
I just discovered your content and I love it. I'm guilty of some of the things you point out. thanks for making me better
2026-02-11 19:27:02
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Akuma Shi :
I watched like 3 TikToks about it when I first moved out to my own place that had a dishwasher there is no excuse
2026-01-05 11:04:49
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WeirdoSpicy :
There's YouTube for the love of God
2026-01-03 04:20:10
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Narcslayer896 :
My ex got bleach everywhere when doing laundry causing me to do all laundry for the next 16 years. When I stopped doing his laundry, he said I “turned” on him. He wasn’t wrong.
2026-01-11 14:04:00
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SmellRanger :
We have been going over chores together like we run a cafe, agree how each should be done, be finished. After 30 yrs we needed it! Helpful.
2026-01-01 19:32:29
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athomewithhollygray :
then they make you feel crazy when you get mad that they merely loaded the dishwasher wrong.
2026-01-05 15:35:24
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Linger & Learn :
This is ABSOLUTELY unbelievable. 🚫🚫🚫
2026-01-27 12:18:58
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BusyKitty :
Every relationship I learnt something’s and I taught something’s both of these just took “one and done” lessons if you keep getting it wrong it’s abuse.
2026-01-01 19:55:21
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Autiwithabody :
And the wooden spoon 😤
2026-01-04 03:46:52
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bernhard olberg :
I worked as a professional dishwasher during school for 3 years so I am a Master, but my family won’t follow my advice and now they all just leave the dirty dishes on the counter. Total disrespect 😢
2026-01-13 16:17:13
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Regan :
Congrats on your book! Happy to be back on TT and seeing your videos. Thanks! ❤️
2026-01-01 03:17:53
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Amy 🏠 :
I use the term executive function. Such as, “it’s very hard to want to be with a person who lacks the executive function to load a dishwasher.”
2026-01-04 08:41:19
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Thymus Vulgaris :
They can run a whole department at work but loading the dishwasher or vacuuming is crazy lolllll
2026-01-02 00:27:40
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Lisa Agius-Gilibert :
I used to do this... when I was 11.
2026-01-01 05:03:09
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M. :
My partner is fully capable of doing laundry, but every time he did it for me or our child there were oversights that ruined our clothes or he'd leave wet things in a laundry bag in the car overnight. Years latet he still swears this was never intentional.
2026-01-02 03:49:56
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Mary-Alice Farina :
PHEW!!!
2026-01-08 01:27:12
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