@leadenim: NOW you want to be adult about it?

Jessie :

why is everyone allowed to be intense EXCEPT ME

noyoumaynot96 :

Its honestly the very best manipulation tactic and somehow the simplest people have it down to a science

NanDobbs🍒 :

Makes me feel like this

brinahex🦇 :

after being a mediator my entire life, I get angry and suddenly ' I am overreacting and need to CALM DOWN?'

𝑬 𝜗𝜚 :

I don’t trust people like this because WHY is deescalation only happening when *I* have a problem.

SpaceGoatToasttheToast :

"be the bigger person" absolutely not

nebula_kid062 :

ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY WERE IMMATURE AND LASHED OUT FIRST?!

Syd :

Literally feels exactly like this

Ratatouille :

Because god forbid their favorite emotional dumping ground shows a genuine human emotion 😟

That_Psych_Man :

I hate how our society has decided that the one expressing the most emotion is the one in the wrong each and every time. It’s maddening actually

Mari 𓊆ྀི❤︎𓊇ྀི :

My rage is sacred and will have a seat at this table like everyone else’s. I’m so tired of ppl doing this

Ash :

Omg I feel this so much 😭 “idk why, she just went off”. BECAUSE YOU PUSHED ME.

grumpy_gulo_gulo :

NOW you wanna do it right?!?!

Crystal (CA’s Version) :

Everytime im upset im the rude one😭

🕯𝕮𝖗𝖎𝖒𝖘𝖓ª𝖗𝖆𝖈𝖍𝖓𝖊🕷 :

you are like papa 🫵🏻🫵🏻

| (• ◡•)| :

They are Invalidating meeeeeeee

mars 📸 :

when people say "calm down" / "stop being so loud" I CANT OMG

˚✧₊⁎ ⁎⁺˳✧༚ :

Hey so, that’s manipulation. My family tends to do that, they’ll get you to your limit and once you explode they’ll act as if you’re the reactive crazy one and they’re the victims

pgabbary :

“Why don’t we take it down a bit?” Me:

☘︎人 ✪ Victoria ✪人☘︎ :

Like you can be angry BUT THE SECOND I GET ANGRY I CANT?!

Celestethiel :

PebbleBo🎐🍰 :

WHY AM I NEVER ALLOWED TO BE ANGRY AS THE CALM NICE ONE????! 😩😭

hailey rose :

the most enraging thing that can possibly happen ever to anyone

Kawa✨🪻 :

I always have to be the bigger person until I just can’t anymore, then all of a sudden I’ve always been unreasonable and insane 😒