Hey Niko! Do you think it’s better to state your non negotiables up front or just keep it more easy going on the first date? I know what I want and don’t want to waste time but I’m sure stating everything I want could scare them off or just them a cheat sheet for lovebombing… but also being too easy going might attract go with the flow guys…
2026-01-02 21:53:04
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Siobhan :
No mud. No Lotus.
2026-01-03 07:50:59
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User🌼 :
Anyone else just staring at Nikos arm 😍
2026-01-02 21:55:59
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Tanya B :
he acted like a bf but didnt want a relationship so I cleared the space for someone who sees me 🤷🏻♀️🧘🏻♀️
2026-01-02 23:45:12
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Margie :
I’m pretty sure I’m attracting men that are clear- cause I can’t see them. 😂♥
2026-01-03 06:01:32
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miffy lover 💓🌸🥰 :
I tend to attract ones that are really keen and lovely in the beginning and then they either taper off or ✨the great discard✨
2026-01-03 05:31:22
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User6287394118 :
The ones that start off chivalrous, but then begin to turn nonchalant which causes me to cut them off. Then they reach out again later and I have to ignore them. Same story different guy 😴
2026-01-28 01:55:31
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NettyBetty :
Healing through dating is spot on !!!!! I’m doing that now
2026-01-03 23:43:01
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Dr. Lila Vonfoxenberg :
I got one who is nonchalant and the one is the opposite I don’t like either now 😂😂😂
2026-01-02 22:37:23
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𝓚𝓪𝓼𝓲𝓪 :
I actually do believe you do heal by dating… bc I went 6 years without dating… and now I’m super rusty, and learning about my attachment styles, triggers, non-negotiables, lack of self-discipline. Dating truly is holding a mirror up to your self.
2026-01-04 09:27:58
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ronique :
Intentionality is 🔑..It's January 2026...we are wiser than we were in 2025... #onward
2026-01-03 20:05:39
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username128945 :
i attract both but i'm only attracted to the non-chalant ones :(
2026-01-11 17:17:22
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isabella :
Y cant i just date niko
2026-01-22 19:57:48
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elle_dox :
You always give good advice! You’re one of my favs to listen to.
2026-01-22 17:54:23
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Hallie :
Niko, I am tired of healing myself lol
2026-02-27 19:45:17
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Akila Talks :
2nd 😅😅😅
2026-01-02 21:54:23
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GoddessAna :
✨🌸I’ve been attracting both lol none that I want to date yet though🌸✨
2026-01-03 22:01:43
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Diane :
That bicep though 💪
2026-01-03 02:59:43
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Becky & Possum :
The way the captions spelled “chalant”“chivalrous” 😏
2026-01-02 23:06:35
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Reemista :
We shouldn’t use someone else as a container for our unprocessed pain.
2026-01-04 14:06:48
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Carolyn 🍸💋🧋🐈⬛️ :
get the choloant guy he will send a whole paragraph about something to you.
2026-01-02 22:12:08
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Alice Potts :
How do you blow up on social in the dating space?
2026-01-03 15:03:28
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M :
Do I have a boyfriend? Yes. Do I still watch all these posts? Also, yes!
2026-01-03 15:50:03
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Bitesizee__ :
I attract both but it’s for me to decide what’s best
2026-01-02 23:35:06
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