xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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Iheartthe90s :
3 months is waaaaay too soon to be speaking as an authority figure on this
2026-01-03 15:30:08
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HiyaChew :
You’re catching a lot of heat in the comments about being too self focused, but as someone in nearly the exact same situation (separated for a year now) you have to heal the individual before the couple. I would give anything to hear my wife talk in terms of healing herself. You’re doing awesome.
2026-01-05 12:43:24
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✨ :
This is 100% spot on what I’m dealing with, today is my one year anniversary and this morning he had his arms around me and I was crying because there was something I was bummed out about that happened yesterday and I just couldn’t tell him because I knew it would turn into a hole dramatic incredibly stressful debate that would last all day or longer. So I just stayed quiet and didn’t say anything, the tears fell, he kept asking me what was wrong and I said nothing. This is where I’m at right now.
2026-01-03 01:12:40
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Onyemao😎🙂↕️ :
Yeah this ain’t going last, too much I no we 😂
2026-01-03 11:44:33
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tugizy :
Same situation right now. We broke up, I moved out to my family. I got a new place since this month and I am renovating it. It were the same reasons. He wanted to change, wantes to give up his dreams for our relationship to work and wanted to try again. But I felt so disconnected and said I don’t want to try it again. I miss him as a person but I don’t miss the relationship. I feel free again. I also was a people pleaser and neglected myself just to make his life easier and happier. Can’t think of getting back with him because can’t imagine the dynamics to change
2026-01-03 11:46:04
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agtr8989 :
all I hear is me me me me me. no we
2026-01-04 09:20:12
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OpaMoe :
The damage is done … like a new car that was hit and repaired … just never the same again
2026-01-04 05:32:59
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Dubgövfx :
And here I am, watching this while my bf of 15 years is packing his stuff because I told him I needed space for myself because of
2026-01-03 08:31:52
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superfluous•verbosity :
This doesn’t sound healthy
2026-01-04 04:19:48
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Sara Wright :
I’m hearing he has stopped dismissing your feelings and turning every communication into conflict? Good that he’s made changes in time. Understand that you having feelings and wanting change is not a problem
2026-01-03 05:00:50
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allthenamesaretaken2022 :
All of them are meeee!
2026-01-03 04:29:40
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user95075254327205 :
That is exactly what led to my 10 year relationship breakdown. When you started talking I was like yep, that's me, yep that's him. We weren't married, so that's probably why it was easier to go through with the break up.
2026-01-04 14:10:30
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Sara :
Need the part 2 of this
2026-01-03 01:49:37
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Old school trucker :
You have to fight for it like you’ve never fought before. 100% open communication with no judgment, only listening and trying to put yourself in the others shoes for a minute.
2026-01-03 14:15:35
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gavin_and_tania :
We went through a breakdown in our marriage in 2024. We are now in a better place than we have ever been. Communication is hard but needs to be the foundation of all relationships.
2026-01-04 09:35:40
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balconfalcon :
tale old as time honest slow thoughtful mature communication and taking real accountability on both sides is the powerful help required thanks for sharing
2026-01-03 04:09:19
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sallisac67 :
I admire both of you. Just not an easy path. Xx
2026-04-02 14:36:26
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summerdavies45 :
this is me. we still love each other but very disconnected. I cannot even bring up issues bc he feels personally attacked . we stopped talking
2026-01-07 12:13:47
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GenX Rebel Queen360 :
I can’t believe the universe sent me this. I’m in the burn out/separated part right now.
2026-01-07 03:06:03
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beetlelife :
Do you have kids? Our kids are ALWAYS around (10 & 8) that sap a lot of our time for each other.
2026-01-08 14:34:06
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Dakota Lenhart :
This is the same thing we are going though right now. This hit home because it’s like everything we are as a couple.
2026-01-04 15:41:05
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Adam Finger Photography :
This is us 100%. Been separated for 3 months, small steps in healing.. I have faith
2026-01-05 19:21:09
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weepee_emjay :
This is me
2026-01-05 23:04:33
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