A mess can also mean major injuries illnesses aging traumas….sometimes survival IS the greatest self love and worthiness. This post definitely applies to abilities, ableism. It can feel shaming to those who cannot do what they once could. Don’t let it! Bc there is a difference between “won’t and can’t”. One reflects will, the other reflects ability. Sometimes people aren’t physically capable. Life isn’t always about what one is willing to do….but what one is able. Before spinal injuries, my home was beautiful. Now, I find self worth in the compassion I give myself despite the messes and clutter. One of the most valuable lessons of self love I had to come to terms with was LETTING GO OF THE “SHOULDS”. Of all the things I SHOULD be doing. Just because one can’t do something doesn’t mean one isn’t worthy. 💕
2026-01-06 21:58:39
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TRichie1000 :
I know it’s only January 4th but this just might be my favorite post of all of 2026!🥹
2026-01-04 15:40:00
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A L E X I S 🍯✨ :
‘Don’t ask for money until you learn how to hold joy’ is a bar whewwwwww 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
2026-01-05 21:24:27
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Just tired :
I disagree. When Albert Einstein died, someone took a picture of his desk. It was a total mess. When Michael Jackson died, they inspected the home he was renting and found rooms full of junk. Highly successful people focus on their craft or gift and don’t have time to have a spotless home/office. This is why they hire maids when they become successful. A kid in medical/law school is studying until 2 am. A doctor in residency is working 36 hour shifts. There are dishes in the sink, clothes strewn around the bedroom and a dryer that has clothes in it that were washed days ago. Whoever said this was a neat freak and was spreading their personal gospel.
2026-03-01 14:45:04
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Diamondlife :
I've been a mess since my son diagnosed with schizophrenia, 17 years ago. I'm just trying to survive. My home was always spotless. Sometimes we can't control life.
2026-01-04 00:33:03
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Kurt | Budgeted A Bigger Life :
I’m going out tomorrow to buy a very beautiful coffee set I’ve eyed off because I decided “not yet”. No, NOW
2026-01-04 08:27:12
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TowandaTravels✨️ :
I am proof that poverty is systemic and doing this is NOT true. My home is clean, organized, purged. And my bank account doesn't reflect that. 🙃
2026-01-03 21:48:41
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11:3 | 3:11 :
I always believed this to be true. It’s a poverty, and entrapped mindset. Such words of wisdom.
2026-01-06 00:57:11
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His Daughter❌ :
I needed this, I’ve been getting things together but I’ve stayed attached to too many old things. Thank you
2026-01-07 00:53:35
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charles bellantoni :
Your surroundings are energy. Energy dictates everything.
2026-01-04 03:47:27
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I am Still a Rose :
Great points! Thank you. Perfect timing as I’m was contemplating what to rid myself of. Now I have decided to rid myself of things I no longer have use for. 🥰
2026-01-13 11:35:39
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Simone :
You got my follow my life is full of things that no longer hold purpose in my space. Thank you for showing up on my fyp 🥰🥰🥰
2026-01-04 16:58:53
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Aimee Garrepy :
Reading this as im deciding im REALLY getting organized and decluttered this month!
2026-01-05 18:29:18
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LifewithSmoore :
so true.....i have been working on this a few days now ❤️
2026-01-05 01:28:53
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Viva Vegas :
2 New Nice Travel Coffee ☕️Mugs 🖤🖤
2026-01-10 07:59:36
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Tyarah_APRN :
Definitely followed you for this post
2026-01-08 22:37:36
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Bri :
This reasonates with me so much
2026-01-08 02:41:05
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Alison :
THIS!!! This right here!!!
2026-01-06 18:44:21
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oceangigi :
One drawer, one room at a time. Time to let go. We needed change because the clutter was weighing us down.
2026-01-05 06:44:38
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perfecktly.flawed :
This is a part of Consciousness
reprogramming. I've seen or heard this before, somewhere else. I've been on a journey to reprogram my Conscious mind and the way I thought about wealth and scarcity. This is confirmation I'm on the right path! 😌
2026-01-11 16:02:30
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Mackenzie :
It’s true and why it’s so hard for people born in poverty to try to climb out of it.
2026-01-05 03:58:11
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Shaunda :
I’m ready for what’s next🤞🏾🌹♥️amen🙏🏾💕🙌🏾💛💐
2026-01-06 13:49:27
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tranquilmamaDC :
I’m transitioning in this way from my old life to the one I always deserved. Sure and steady, I love every time I let go.
2026-01-05 19:25:33
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ycuknow :
Realiezt info I ever heard outside the word of God!😁😇
2026-01-05 11:43:24
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Lucie :
Oh wow. Let me clean my closet and donate all the clothes I don’t use to make room for new! This is good! Thank you!
2026-01-06 06:25:56
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