It’s very depressing looking after an ill parent. I feel like a robot dealing with the situation
2026-01-03 19:07:39
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S😃B😄R :
Im doing it for both parents, financially and physically plus I need to see to my own home and their home. My brother's dont even help me but because im the female and the youngest I carry it all for the past 15yrs many days im just living because I have to.
2026-01-04 10:00:36
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ł :
It’s even more difficult when the parent was emotionally volatile and abusive and you were already the parent since you were a kid. I imagine if you had the deep bond and love with your parents it can come from you a lot more genuinely. But in this way it’s only duty.
2026-01-03 21:01:00
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nas :
Looked after my mum for 5yrs until she recently passed away in hospital 06/08/25
Im so lost without her even though it was tiring, her empty chair breaks my heart every time I see it.💔💔💔🤲🤲
2026-01-03 22:56:48
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🖤💛 Adrya 🐝 💛🖤🇧🇳🇵🇸 :
i have been taking care of both of my parents until their last breath. my dad who had dementia passed at aged 91, march 2024 and mom at aged 81, passed august 2025.
if ever i had been given another chance again, i will definitely do it again because i love them dearly and what i did, can't never repay their kindness until i die..
may Allah bless their soul and place them among the righteous, Allahumma Aamiin 🤲🏽❤️
2026-02-09 10:43:04
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Dua 🤲 Noor :
May Allah swt make it easy for us 🤲
2026-01-03 17:10:41
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Bubblegum :
It may be exhausting but it’s worth it. Looking after your parents brings immense rewards.
2026-01-04 00:14:00
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Rafah :
My siblings and I take care of our parent who has Alzheimers. It is our duty..it is a must!
2026-04-10 16:29:16
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Sadiyah :
This is the same about taking care of a disabled child
2026-01-31 16:48:21
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unknown :
it traumatized 😔 me so bad .now I suffer from severe depression and anxiety. lost everything and I'm all alone
2026-01-04 12:32:45
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Kifarah! Just w8! 🤲😉 :
Alhamdulillah for such a blessing, the khidmat u do for ur parents may be exhausting but immensely spiritually rewarding! Ameen May Allah swt grant my parents Jannatul Firdous Ameen 🤲
2026-01-03 21:41:57
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Mama in Finance :
Especially when their verbals could be mentally abusive
2026-02-08 13:43:32
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sabihaliaqat746 :
May Allah give us strength to deal with our parents patiently and with kindness.Ameen
2026-01-04 10:53:20
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Micky :
Alhumdulillah, I cared for my folks from a very young age. My mother closed her eyes for the last time in my arms and I was the only one my father recognised in the end. May Allah swt grant my parents Jannat ul Firdous Inshallah.
2026-01-04 00:39:27
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Candi :
Been taking care of both who have Alzheimer’s is horrendous. I don’t have any faith just do it coz they raised me
2026-01-03 22:11:15
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Snippets_of_a_Wayferer :
Lower the wing of compassion as they did with you when you were small, they made sacrifices for you, now its your time to repay the dept of love
2026-01-04 01:31:35
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whiskas :
This is real!!! what he is saying is reality.
2026-01-03 21:53:05
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user4322222827085 :
i did it for my mother n brother who both passed. my sister also did her bit. But the rest of the family sat back….. In Allah we trust 🙏💕
2026-01-03 22:52:54
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mariam patel :
if u love the parent
you go the extra mile
it's ur time to care of them
no parents
I will 100 times over again
2026-01-03 10:10:18
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tqr8x :
So true - May Allah make it easy for people going through with this difficult task Ameen
2026-01-03 14:18:08
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sopeaa :
real✋🏻💯
2026-03-13 10:40:51
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HaninRamli :
May Allah help the children. Amin🤲
2026-01-08 04:31:06
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bff :
this is so so true ,and I'm an only child I ask my Rabb daily for Sabar ..when I was younger I was tolerant.Even with my love being deep.
2026-03-09 21:30:20
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afb :
May Allah give me the opportunity to look after my parents. I am a woman, I live far away from them with my husband. I can't support them financially as I am not allowed to work.
2026-01-31 23:13:37
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