Helena ✧
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Saturday 03 January 2026 15:00:00 GMT
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Kim Anderson :
Every time I hear someone say, " Your mom is the sweetest person"
2026-01-03 19:58:14
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NicTok111 :
I learned to be fiercely authentic from this
2026-01-03 22:43:51
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𓆉. ݁𓇼. ݁𝑒𝓂. ݁𓇼. ݁𓆉 :
My mom was a teacher. Kids who were students would always tell me how lucky I was that she was my mom and I was just like 😐 if you only knew
2026-01-03 15:59:57
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marxreader420 :
my mom would brag to everyone about my achievements but at home i’d get yelled at bc my best wasn’t good enough
2026-01-03 16:11:43
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Jackie | The GRAYce Effect :
My daughter a few years ago said to me “you’re nicer to me in front of my friends than when they’re not here” it reminded me of my own childhood and how I felt with my mom 💔 I listened to her and have worked ever since to change and regulate myself
2026-01-03 23:06:30
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🌞Danica⭐️ :
This was my life. I HATED it.
2026-01-03 17:30:23
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Helena Elizabeth :
AND despite their public persona, they will also pull you aside to police your behavior in front of others (even tho u didn’t necessarily do anything wrong, they just want to control you)
2026-01-04 00:20:06
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✨amaris✨ | mostly yappin :
And when I dared cry or be upset she’d tell me to “stop acting”
2026-01-04 00:13:11
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Chelsea313 :
I think my mom being performative in public while being a different person at home, combined with her pushing me to the point of “reactive abuse” (hate that term) convinced me I was secretly a bad person and everyone would “find out” eventually
2026-01-04 15:15:13
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Mercy 🌻💛 :
my mom is quicker to defend & support strangers before she would support or defend me.
2026-01-06 12:33:21
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comfortabletee :
the car rides home were always fights or lectures
2026-01-30 03:11:36
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Long live Pluto :
Image 👏 management 👏 is their ONLY goal
2026-01-05 15:44:49
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virtunaha9n :
My mom would go directly from screaming at us to answering the phone super politely.
2026-02-20 22:54:07
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tonirosetaro :
Shout out to the eldest daughter of Virgo moms
2026-01-07 03:46:49
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Amanda Amor :
Shapeshifter is correct! 💯💯💯
2026-01-04 16:09:34
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antares :
When I hit my late teens-early 20s, my mom truly started panicking because I didn’t care to play along with her performance. It was just weird and didn’t feel right to me anymore.
2026-02-04 16:24:58
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kat :
her friends/neighbors/coworkers have NEVER met the woman who raised me 🤪🥰
2026-01-04 14:17:24
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June Tune :
I think there are more mothers like this than we realize, also many become their mothers
2026-01-03 22:15:22
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Pearlsesq :
And performative fathers too.
2026-01-04 21:01:45
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MLW 🍉 :
My mom who I couldn’t figure out why she only complimented me to strangers in front of me.
2026-01-04 00:02:38
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Rainbow Rewind :
Recovering fawner/people pleaser raised by a performative mom and emotionally absent father, also didn't know I was gay and AuDHD. Throw in C-PTSD for some razzle dazzle!
2026-01-03 17:31:11
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David Webb :
Am I crazy for believing that anyone who says "momma bear" is an INSTANT red flag for this? Serious question...
2026-01-03 17:52:38
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Espresso Martina 🍸 :
they know what they are doing
2026-01-03 17:36:28
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山 姆 🔻 :
It makes me physically nauseous — I’m violently authentic now.
2026-01-04 17:15:44
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Mushi&Hiroshi :
Let’s not forget about the imaginary script that they’ve already written in their head and if you go off script the instant rage or confusion that you could possibly say something different than what they’ve already planned that you were going to say or do
2026-01-04 00:09:33
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