@jackolopeandhuckleberry: My first husband actually told me he did not consider me family. That spouces can’t be “real” family. I really wanted to be in a loving marriage, so this was quite devastating to me. Of course my rotten in-laws are the ones that put this in his head. How is your spouse not your family? #f#familyn#narcissistc#cookiesh#husbandm#marriage
Mother’s Day, my ex-husband would not get me anything because I am not his mother.
2026-01-04 03:29:37
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Alana :
When I was pregnant with my second, my then husband told me meal prepping was unnecessary bc he and our son could just go eat at his mom's house. I asked him what I was supposed to eat, and he said "oh yeah." Also divorced. 😆
2026-01-04 10:36:15
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zintradi :
My wife and my child are my family… anyone else is simply related
2026-01-04 03:34:42
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🍯☥Kuromitsu☥🍯 :
This is why a career is a flex and marriage is not...
2026-01-04 14:29:18
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Nobuckupgoes :
One of my greatest fears is to be tied to an unreasoning mind. I've gotten glimpses into some minds that leave me speechless with the level of dysfunctional thinking.
2026-01-04 19:09:32
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Charley :
My cousin said this to his wife even after they had kids. They went on a road trip and they went to the cemetery to see his Dads grave site and told her to wait in the car while him and the kids went to the grave because she wasn’t family. Then he couldn’t understand why she left him 😏
2026-01-04 08:11:08
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90210mom :
My ex said the same to me too. His great aunt died, and I adored her and wanted to attend her funeral. I couldn’t go because it was “family only”. I had been married for five years at this point and pregnant with our first child!I didn’t attend the services.
2026-01-04 04:07:20
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house.of.ill.repute :
This is eye opening for me. I struggle seeing my siblings partners as part of the family but your video made me realize that they are my siblings family. So I need to consider it more.
2026-01-04 20:50:28
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kirstabell 🏴 :
i remember gazing over my newborn son's cot and saying to my husband. Can you believe how much you can love something? He said"Yeah, you and Amelia are a close second." Amelia is my daughter and he'd been in her life she was 1. She was 5 at this point. I was devastated by this.
2026-01-25 11:20:59
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Dee Dilly :
My husband thinking is the same, I’m not family. The divorce is pending.
2026-01-04 11:38:42
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Eva | Felt Crafts & Bucilla 🪡 :
My ex husband said this exact same thing to me 😭
2026-01-04 03:26:33
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Crimsonfool :
Sounds like a question that should be asked before anyone gets married: Do you consider your spouse to be family or not?
2026-01-04 19:12:44
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MsJulesBee :
In hindsight, you could've have said you weren't obligated to eat the cookies because she wasn't "your family" 😅
2026-01-29 22:42:27
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Blitz (Sara) 🦋🇨🇦 :
They will waste YEAR'S of your life and not feel bad for a second.
2026-01-06 16:02:54
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DropDeadFred :
this is BIZARRE. I consider the family i MADE my real family, not the one I was born into. This family was my intention, it was done with PURPOSE, not lottery.
2026-01-04 21:36:30
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დ .•*””*•ցɾҽოlíղ qυєєη•*””*•.დ :
Ah ha! Someone in the comment section just explained why they don’t consider the person they married as family. They’re disposable in their minds. They can be replaced and technically you can’t replace a blood relation. That’s cold. It explains a lot though.
2026-01-04 16:09:16
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sarahmaklad1 :
This is a common pattern in narcissistic families, so so prevalent in societies where sexist and narcissistic family dynamics are prevalent
2026-02-02 05:46:45
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meshawncook3 :
I'm so glad that most of the people who have shared a story have included the word "ex". So happy for y'all.
2026-01-05 00:02:06
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Mad&Sad :
I'm an orphan that never got adopted. I know the feeling. I'm hypersensitive to "feeling accepted" in the family, it's subtle words and actions. You know when you're not really wanted long term. 🌷
2026-01-06 02:26:57
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mlauricella55 :
Some consider a wife a possession. 😳🤷♂️🤦🏻
2026-01-05 14:51:12
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D wa Migadde :
"My first husband didn't like me very much" hits really hard! My ex had his sisters as his next kin for the entire time we were together - 13years but wanted me to have him as my next of kin....
2026-01-19 06:44:02
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user5654445459267 :
My ex used to tell me he didn’t like for me to wear makeup. He was always telling me I didn’t need to wear makeup. So I backed off from wearing makeup until one day he was describing a lady who his friend was dating. He told me she was the “pretty type you know the type that wears makeup and stuff” I was done with him.
2026-01-04 22:29:06
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🍒♐️🎃🐈🪻♎️ :
Was he a mother’s boy?
2026-01-04 06:29:58
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memawtex :
How can you jot be his family but his parent’s are? How did his parents make that one if his mom and dad “ werent family?”
2026-01-04 04:03:45
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