Drew Daniels
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withloveliz27 :
I was securely attached and developed anxious attachment behaviors due to my avoidant’s behavior
2026-01-05 06:56:48
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____gh_28 :
Inability to communicate wants/needs = assumption partner can read your mind = resentment building
2026-01-04 22:05:45
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skidsteer :
Anytime you speak to them-it’s conflict. Anytime you ask them anything-it’s conflict. Everything is conflict. They want too exist invisibly and take zero accountability.
2026-01-05 21:51:50
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Thomas Segato226 :
I think the hard part is to have a discussion with them without them feeling attacked.
2026-01-08 11:08:39
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Shanna Wilder :
No because anxious types only care about their feelings
2026-01-04 23:41:46
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Emin :
So baby them forever
2026-01-05 01:54:20
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1234star :
Doesn’t work. You can use the most gentle, therapeutic language ever and they still will run away.
2026-01-31 01:23:22
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Puffin89 :
avoidants cause 99% of conflicts 😅
2026-01-05 16:49:07
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Michelle Wilson :
That’s why they don’t like gifts. It’s uncomfortable receiving them and don’t know how to “act”
2026-01-05 20:56:57
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Amilio :
She wants “peace”
2026-01-05 08:07:17
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carla smada :
they don't need anything = i'm so terrified to be emotionally vulnerable or i'm so disconnected for myself that i don't know what i need, i want peace = i want you to do all the emotional labor and be okay with me not engaging that way
2026-01-05 19:42:20
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Cdalus :
That is 100%true married 17 years my husband never want a thing all he said is I want peace 😩😩
2026-01-20 23:54:16
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Casey C :
Working on my secure attachment so I can give him the safety🫶
2026-01-05 03:31:31
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catziety :
I just want peace bruh
2026-01-19 23:11:12
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LillithParis :
True. And avoidants are always the ones to start conflict. And preferably accuse you to. 🤷♀️
2026-01-07 12:28:35
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Tessa :
Sure. But since I am with a dismissive avoidant who runs from any emotional situation by projecting blame on me, construing an argument and then run in anger; I am now almost allergic to give space for regulation.
2026-01-14 17:39:26
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BREAZY. :
So I did this, I was inquisitive, and I created a safe space. And I can’t help but wonder if reason pushes people away who can’t communicate. Bc they resent you for communicating well when they can’t.
2026-01-22 18:12:40
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Jo Momma :
I want to be left alone is what he would say
2026-01-25 05:16:05
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Cassa Balla :
It’s hard to make their environment safe when they have cause so much lack of safety for us for so long. What I need is safety expressing my feelings/needs/emotions.
2026-01-22 15:12:07
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Natalie 🩷 :
a day at a time !!! 😂
2026-01-04 23:06:57
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SolaViews :
This is unreal, life have ups and downs and is not possible to be all time in a perfect balance...
2026-01-07 19:35:19
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Holly🌵💪🇺🇸🏈 :
I buy my man the world and more lol and yes he says he hates the drama and conflict and emotions
2026-01-05 19:54:28
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Mtok :
This is scarily accurate
2026-01-05 11:13:04
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Saphira Magic & Miracles :
There are ways by discussing the fact that triggers are from the little boy or girl inside and patiently observing, then healing them together ♥️
2026-01-05 16:55:34
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Rhiannon :
“I just want peace” says to me “I don’t care at all about you at all and I don’t want to work on repairing our relationship or any other relationship”
2026-03-02 23:18:58
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