@thevalerieadams: These are three ways you’re accidentally teaching men to do the bare minimum 👇🏼 People will treat you in the ways that you allow them to. We are constantly demonstrating what we are ok with and what we will put up with based on… If we are rewarding that person, and still giving them our time and energy even when they disappoint us. YOU are responsible for what you consistently entertain 💯 If you are not satisfied with the level of effort, a man is putting in to get to know you and date you… It’s your responsibility to hold the line around what you will allow. If you are DONE investing time in low effort men, and you want to heal the patterns that have had you stay in these dynamics for far too long… So you can attract men who are commitment minded, and ready for something serious 👇🏼 This is what I will be teaching and guiding you through inside of my brand new program SECURELY CHOSEN 🌹 Join the Waitlist for at the top of my page 🔗 . . . ##dating##datingadvice##redflags##manifestlove##relationships

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naizzo :

i'm giving him a space and it's been a month since we last met lol

2026-01-20 12:39:38

K :

How do I go about this situation: went on 2 dates with a guy then he went to Japan for 2 weeks but still texted me a little on the trip, at one point I asked what kind of snacks or candy they had their that he really liked that he would miss coming back, he asked me what my favorite candy is and said he would find something similar and bring it back for me. I saw him last night for our 3rd date and there was no mention. This is a turn off to me - not because of the candy but it’s the principle, he told me he was going to something and as I am seeing right now he didn’t . Not sure if I should bring it up or what

2026-02-23 22:05:45

Little J ❌ :

I had a match literally ask wyd after an hour of messaging and was ANGRY (and unmatched) when I had plans already.

2026-01-06 02:08:56

Pinkpanter :

What do you do when you are married?? Not that I am

2026-01-20 17:02:43

A :

thank god I left him

2026-01-27 11:47:45

Truth.Now :

Very true.

2026-02-16 02:44:42

cole beardshaw :

How would you express to initiate seeing eachother, without being the one to make plans

2026-01-05 21:41:45

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