My ex fiancé said the ring was the gift so when I finally left him I was able to use that in small claims court when he wanted the ring back. He legally "gifted" it to me and wasn't entitled to it being return. I sold it and took myself on the trip go Scotland - I found my new partner there. It truly was the gift he could have ever given me 🤭
2026-01-06 00:02:25
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javafiendx :
Getting engaged is not a gift. And if it is a gift, it’s a gift to himself.
2026-01-05 23:52:59
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Dana Vinger :
he’s getting gifts and getting engaged.. she should too.
2026-01-06 07:53:19
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JustPeaches :
It’s giving “your birthday is also Christmas Day, so your Christmas presents also count as birthday presents”
2026-01-05 23:59:52
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FosterPupz :
Getting engaged IS NOT A GIFT.
2026-01-06 00:12:18
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Christine Woerner :
Engagement isn’t a gift. It’s the promise of a contract. Contracts aren’t presents. Also, nobody should ever get engaged by piggybacking on another holiday. It lacks imagination and it’s lazy. Therefore it’s a red flag.
2026-01-06 00:37:31
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Naiya.papaya :
I have always been against proposals on existing holidays and this is one of the reasons why
2026-01-06 00:14:27
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graceofcrafts :
Does he not end up engaged as well? So she should take back any presents she got him and replace it with an engagement ring for him too?
2026-01-06 00:06:01
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Kara 💕 :
Harry is gonna be buying appliances as presents very soon
2026-01-19 07:12:14
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Rose&Mater’s Ma :
“Gifting” an engagement ring is tricky because engagement rings should be returned if the engagement falls through but gifts don’t have to be returned. So is it a gift or not? If the guy would want the ring returned to him if they split for any reason, he didn’t get her a Christmas gift.
2026-01-06 15:11:22
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Emyloo :
I got engaged on this last Christmas. He still got me many gifts!
2026-01-06 00:42:29
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lemon :
Engagement is something for both of them, it is not something he's doing for her. it is not a gift
2026-01-06 10:35:51
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Amy Marie Murphy :
Even if you were scraping by to get the ring, small things like a favorite food, candle, shirt, whatever are super easy, normally inexpensive, and can show intention!
2026-01-06 03:57:57
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StephieH :
I was born on New Years Eve. DONT COMBINE GIFTS. The amount of times I got one gift for christmas and told 'this is for both' is uncountable. And hurtful.
2026-01-12 17:53:35
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silverdragonx89 :
Engagement rings don’t count as Christmas gifts. That’s a symbol of the promise of your future together and is exclusive to itself.
2026-01-06 02:36:07
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CocoConAz :
my hubs proposed Dec 23, alone! it was beautiful. we were just sitting and wrapping presents eating pizza. perfection! He did still get me Xmas gifts
2026-01-06 00:25:17
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Bold Take Stories :
Getting engaged IS NOT A GIFT.
2026-01-07 19:54:04
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__ :
The friend is right. Harry should be getting Xmas gifts on top of the ring. The ring & proposal is NOT a Xmas gift IMO
2026-01-06 12:18:35
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Autum Raine :
If him proposing is the gift to her, her saying yes should be her gift to him. And then she should return whatever she wrapped for him and get herself something that she wants/needs 😌
2026-01-07 04:42:49
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advocate4lars :
Also a teacher once told me if you prose as a gift and something happens and it ends that is now her ring forever you can’t ask for it back bc it was a gift. Granted I hope that doesn’t happen but something that stuck with me.
2026-01-06 00:17:58
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💙 BlaqueAsian 💙 :
Similar to the December babies that get birthday/Christmas gifts as a twofer!!! NOOO!!! They are TWO separate occasions, TREAT THEM AS SUCH!!! Get her Christmas gifts…HARRY!!!
2026-01-06 18:27:15
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supremechiickennugget :
he can do something small like a spa certificate/ new robe /slippers/ gift cards to her fave places/ bath stuff u know she likes
2026-01-06 13:52:43
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Gracee :
It’s a 🚩 No Thank You 😊
2026-01-05 23:57:20
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Kim Cable Brafford :
I’m surprised by the comments. I’m with Harry. Rings are expensive, and the memory that will prevail at Christmastime won’t be of a sweater or perfume. The ring will be her favorite gift ever.
2026-01-06 03:50:35
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Ashlee Ann :
Yeah, he’s in the wrong. This is like my telling my parents not to reimburse me for plane tickets to Florida for Christmas, then not getting a gift in place of it since “tickets were part of the gift” 🙄
2026-01-06 01:58:48
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