Abby Rodman | Psychotherapist
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The one thing I hate what people say is “what did you see in them”? You see the person they perform as. And it’s hard when it’s over and you grieve the loss of the person that never existed
2026-01-07 10:19:23
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Breezy :
I am almost a year out and the forgiveness is so real! I get angrier as time goes on for allowing myself to be treated like that.
2026-01-07 02:30:03
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FunnyhairJB :
How many times did I hear “why don’t you just leave?”
2026-01-08 16:17:02
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♉️ 💖 𝔏𝔦𝔰𝔞 🌸 🇨🇦 :
1: Believe the victim. They are not making things up, but holding back on how bad it really was! 2: Never tell them they have to forgive them, and don't be angry, and return to that abuser. 3: Let them know that even though you don't understand, let them know you're listening. That's sometimes the very best thing! Just a few things I learnt after I left my abuser
2026-01-07 21:32:00
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Grasshopper :
Forgive yourself
2026-01-07 11:35:48
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MjK 💟♍️✝️☮️ :
THANK YOU for your messages 💔🙏🏼❤️
2026-01-07 00:20:47
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Dave Watson :
We all have some narcissistic tendencies… to a degree. We would all be extremely boring if we didn't. These days it sounds like everybody that doesn't like someone else is accusing that person of being a narcissist. There are very few true narcissists in the world. I've known thousands of people in my lifetime and maybe two of them were true narcissists. Just because you don't like somebody and they do care about themselves doesn't make them a narcissist.
2026-02-26 22:09:16
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Intoxicated Cucumber🥒 :
I hate the ‘but you also had good times together, right’?
2026-01-07 15:18:29
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Theresa :
Yes we can never forget that they did everything, knowing exactly what they were doing. This hurts.
2026-01-07 04:43:10
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Unasportswear :
I have been married for 20 years , a few years ago I told him that I don’t understand how he can be so aggressive with me and still tell me he loves me, he told me that he was told by his ex that he was a narcissist but he never believed it. What is so hard in this relationship is that they have a different perception and different reality .
2026-01-07 20:41:49
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GaryO65 Gen❌ :
I gave her dozens of times, going back each time thinking we could make it work. As I now know, I betrayed myself each time. I am out of forgiveness, nor will I forget. She deserves neither.
2026-01-07 04:30:43
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Gabe🏳️🌈 :
i needed to hear this, thank you ❤
2026-01-07 01:25:57
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MayoSavant2024 :
I had no clue… that came after 20yrs thru the divorce
2026-01-07 02:51:14
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robingorenberg :
Yes to intermittent reinforcement! studies show that that keeps people going the longest. it's terrible to experience but it makes so much sense once you're done!
2026-01-07 01:29:24
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Dawn 🇨🇦 :
I heard all this!!! My favourite was: the signs were there, you missed it 😡
2026-01-24 23:37:04
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Unmarried Chronicles :
Oh my gosh so good. Do you have content about psychopaths? I think my ex narc is also a psychopath.
2026-01-08 00:28:00
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Dainis W. Michel :
Forced forgiveness is incredibly toxic. It’s also not Biblical by the way. Thank you.
2026-01-09 13:39:40
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Paige Lennox Books & Advocacy :
Love these! One thing I’ve heard a lot since leaving is “why are you grieving? You should just be happy you are safe and out of that marriage! Get on with your life”
2026-01-14 15:31:28
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Tricia :
It took me 20 years to forgive my X only because it was “just for me” to move forward stronger. I just wish we had a delete button for our brain …
2026-01-07 04:18:56
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Meagan :
When I focused on forgiveness I ended up back in the abusive relationship and completely lost myself. Now I’m only focused on healing and moving forward with my life. I don’t forgive him.
2026-01-18 23:49:59
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🇨🇦 ❌Di 🇨🇦❌ :
I will never forgive him but I will forgive myself for staying so long 💯
2026-01-18 23:58:57
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Ruby Redden :
NarcissistPD should be taught in high school. The only reason I got duped is lack of knowledge. Here’s how you forgive: they didn’t choose that diagnosis therefore it’s forgivable but you stay far far away from them. Your knowledge is your armor and it will never happen again. This by far is the best tik tok site for knowledge. I try to explain it now to family members what happened to me now. But honestly the only people who understand is this community on this channel.
2026-01-07 09:54:02
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shelz :
you can't leave if your born into it can you , it's all I knew
2026-01-07 10:30:25
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