@antdsply: Boundaries after cheating aren’t about control…they’re about safety. After betrayal, trust is broken, your nervous system is on high alert, and love alone isn’t enough to heal it. Clear boundaries create emotional safety, accountability, and real opportunities for trust to be rebuilt. Without boundaries, resentment grows, triggers multiply, and healing stalls. If someone truly wants to repair the damage they caused, they won’t fight your boundaries…they’ll respect them. Healing requires structure, consistency, and protection of your peace. ❤️🩹 #boundaries #betrayalrecovery #cheating #HealingJourney #infidelityinamarriage
Antd Sply | Betrayal Recovery
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Wednesday 07 January 2026 16:10:14 GMT
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I like pizza :
I’m scared that he’ll just hide it better
2026-01-13 17:40:47
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FromTheAshes :
I have had this access…he got sneakier. Alternate emails, secret profiles, incognito mode and a vpn….the access was a smokesceeen😔
2026-01-08 00:38:51
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Celeste Marinelli :
He was 💯 ok with me setting boundaries in the beginning of the discovery, but now I feel he resents me when I do check his phone….. he says every man needs privacy…. Which I totally get…. But if he wants to rebuilt trust, i think this is the only way…. Also….. i have seen some things I dont like but i dont knownhow to bring them up..💔
2026-01-07 19:27:40
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SaraHammeke :
I am an x cheater personally. I truly have changed, hallelujah. It was a lot of work, took radical honesty with myself, but it’s possible. I became so incredibly disgusted with myself that it broke me. I rebuilt with integrity and it’s the best thing I’ve ever done. I really needed to learn how to love myself. I understand a lot of people don’t want to change… but I did 😭 and in my next relationship I got cheated on like crazy soooo I have the full circle of lessons now 😮💨 it’s time to sit with myself and be single for a while.
2026-01-10 18:07:07
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D. Widders :
Boundaries after Betrayal >
2026-01-07 16:49:35
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felicia nicole :
yeah but if you have access to all that then he’s not doing anything because he knows you’re watching not because he doesn’t want to.
2026-02-01 16:40:31
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HONEY🦡BADGER P.N.W. :
People mentioned that myself having passwords and checking his phone is just controlling and an invasion of his privacy but after multiple hurts I feel much better having that freedom to be reassured. It hurts when you find boundaries crossed again though.
2026-01-07 16:51:43
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🖤🍃 LadyEss 🍃🖤 :
My husband's phone is a HUGE trigger. Mine doesn't take his phone into the bathroom (ever) and when I go to bed, his phone comes with me (I go to bed when our kids go to bed because I'm up the earliest). It's brought me some peace so far.
2026-01-07 19:54:41
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user6803270374185 :
Isn’t not cheating a boundary that was set during your vows?
2026-01-07 21:52:14
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Apple User857254805 :
What if I keep telling him I need space and time to see consistent change in him before going back but he keeps telling me I’m wrong and we need to work on it together. I feel like I need proof of sustained change and respect but he doesn’t agree
2026-01-08 19:08:04
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Nanisz :
He has given me access to everything and although he won’t use his social medias he still has the girl on one of his pages. I’ve told him it bothers me but he tells me he doesn’t even use it. Am I overreacting??
2026-01-07 19:43:40
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Honeychurch :
What tracking app did you use?
2026-01-29 16:15:40
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Kenzie :
I’m the cheater. My husband is absolutely amazing and I need to just have a meeting with you two to figure out how to be better. 🥺
2026-02-17 03:43:51
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Yvonne09 :
What kind of boundaries? Like what happens if it’s crossed? Do you just leave the relationship? What are examples of consequences for crossing boundaries?
2026-01-07 20:24:02
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FaquaXC84 :
You guys are just so dang cute together. Thank you for being here to help as my husband and I navigate our new marriage after his betrayal.
2026-01-08 18:15:41
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˖ ࣪ ˒💒 viola⁷ 𖤐۰ ໋࣭₊˚✧˖*°࿐ :
Even though it's a very sensitive and controversial topic, I find your videos very interesting. I don't know if I'd ever be able to forgive a betrayal, but I've always believed that if someone REALLY wants to change, they can. so I'm glad that now you have a relationship that makes you feel secure and happy and I'm happy for him too because he learned from his mistakes and decided to change❤️
2026-01-07 20:05:53
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🥰Kea🥰 :
I wish things was this simple for me… I love the communication between you two
2026-01-10 17:13:23
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Michelle_y :
I cannot get my husband to agree to being open with his phone. I know his passcode but he keeps that phone close. In the past I requested that he allow me to see his phone if I was feeling insecure. He refused. I need transparency. I feel like I’m just waiting for him to betray me again
2026-01-17 10:08:09
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Michelle :
Too much damn work. I’ll go work on myself.
2026-02-21 22:13:59
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Faith Pistol :
3 yrs in...and he refuses to respect my boundaries. I have these my exact boundaries. no respect for my needs to give me comfort....
2026-01-08 23:28:51
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mami3 :
that lasted 1 month and went back to the old way
2026-01-19 04:31:16
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Saritaaaa ❤️🔥 :
I should leave because these are my boundaries &’ he won’t do it..
2026-01-14 15:02:54
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Joséphinè :
now when you asked for his password to his phone did he demand the password to your phone? or was he ok with just you having his?
2026-01-10 04:16:22
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