Little tip; if your parents are helping to pay, let them invite their friends…. Why? Hear me out. Cash Gifts? They have money, your friends don’t.
2026-01-09 08:10:43
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__stephaniewhite__ :
I come from a family of people with Harvard and Yale backgrounds as far as I’m concerned everyone is invited 😭🥂
2026-01-09 17:40:27
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G :
Hot take, if they’re paying per person it’s fine
2026-01-09 14:48:55
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Isabella Smith :
IM SERIOUS INVITE THEM!! THEY HAVE MONEY!!! CASH GIFTS!
2026-01-09 16:54:27
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Kinda Blondïsh :
Remember, it’s YOUR day. not theirs.
2026-01-08 20:17:49
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msnahmias :
My only request was that I wanted to meet everyone on my in laws guest list before my wedding day, so no one would be a stranger. Can’t meet in person? A phone call to say hello would suffice. Apparently I was out of line for suggesting such a thing 🤷♀️
2026-01-09 16:58:28
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Hannah Maine :
The day I was deemed ‘Bridezilla’ !! Best of luck !
2026-01-08 22:15:28
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adrianna cartee :
I was bothered by my mom doing this but she is paying for the entire wedding so I gave her 1/4 of the guest list. At the end of the day she just wanted her friends to see her grown baby get married.
2026-01-09 17:15:55
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salmacadele :
tell me about it 🥲 we have over 500 guests
2026-01-08 00:50:35
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stay for a while :) :
So y’all think your parents throwing money just allows them to be able to do what they want with YOUR wedding???😭 They should be paying simply because they want to help celebrate you.
2026-01-09 17:59:29
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Ramsey Tess :
No because why were they trying to invite their distant cousin twice removeds grandma who my husband didn’t even know.
2026-01-09 14:31:14
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justrachaeld :
I love the word “no”
2026-01-09 13:27:10
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chronically erica |-/ :
And this’ll be me — idc if they’re “family” if, me myself and I do not have a relationship with them they ain’t coming they don’t have a seat at my dinner table— there is a REASON I don’t have a relationship with them
2026-01-09 15:38:35
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A. Pudas :
We came up with a tentative guest list with the people we thought our parents wanted to invite and my parents had us take people off! 😂
2026-01-09 17:50:59
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camille :
She means business with that pen and paper hahah
2026-01-08 00:33:06
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🫶🏻 Life with Alyssa :
SO glad my family has not been like this so far 😅
2026-01-09 14:36:48
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positivetiktok3 :
Hehe small wedding venue with a cap and anyone who wasn’t on my original list that was on my mom’s she had to pay for 😇
2026-01-09 14:35:02
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_mads7777 :
Too bad it’s my wedding🤣
2026-01-09 18:15:35
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haley meritt :
nope
2026-01-09 17:51:40
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Maggie Burkley :
My dad was like “it’s just 25 on our list” yeah.. 25 couples so really 50 people. That plus my finances parents list 🙄
2026-01-12 18:12:59
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abby elise!! :
I cannot wait to not invite people to my wedding
2026-01-11 05:17:36
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𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐑𝐋𝐄𝐘 𝜗𝜚 :
im definitely inviting my parents friends they got moneyyssss 💰
2026-01-09 19:32:06
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hasbunnies :
WHO ARE THEY?!
2026-01-12 17:14:18
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Emily :
I asked my MIL she said “no one” hahaha I asked my dad he gave me two people that weren’t already on the list.
2026-01-09 13:59:16
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riley_smith106 :
It’s rough out here lol
2026-01-09 21:43:03
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