@twohottakes.us: AITA for how I responded to a "friend" at my friend's birthday dinner? Part 1 #redditstorytime #redditreadings #redditstories #twohottakes #reddit_tiktok #aitareddit #storytelling #askreddit #aita #fyp #Relationship

Kit :

3 kids at 22 is a CHOICE! 👏

Michelle Lynne 🇨🇦🍉 :

B brought her home life to the table by commenting that OP didn't know tired unless she knew B's kind of tired - it was fair game. Sucks for A, since it was her birthday, but OP is owed an apology by B if anything.

user6466932431835 :

As a mom of 2 under 2, I REALLY REALLY hate it when weirdo moms gatekeep being tired

eleeza0076 :

Empathy, food for thought: Someone drowning in a tub of water versus somebody drowning in the ocean, are both still drowning

kellymeehan296 :

B brought her “home situation” up first, so all bets were off.

lapsang & earl grey :

1) She started it 2) Sleep deprivation makes you react over emotional

💙🤍💛 Rach 🖤🩷🤍 :

OMG why do some parents think that childless people don’t have a hard life for whatever reason?! I have a child who is Autistic/ADHD which is HARD but I know childless people who have so much more struggles than I do!

johnbearoverthere :

b ruined the dinner by insulting A's friend and picking a fight

Clara Layfield :

“If I die right now at least I don’t have to do the exams” is the most relatable university thing ever

Alternatives Gaming :

"Don't bring her home situation to the discussion!" Like what, she bought it herself

sroth28 :

Find new friends.

Common Jay :

akaKatie :

the delivery was wrong...but I think what you said was right...if you apologize just apologize for screaming. good luck I hope you passed your exams

maxineshaw313 :

3 kids at 22 sounds like literal hell

Lori Corder :

B ruined it when she put her down

Julie in the sky :

She should have KNOWN how far sleep deprivation can lead you 🤣

EMD🇵🇷 PRP :

Her struggles? What struggles does B have? Please

Cc___👑 :

NTA that girl deserved to be told the truth. its messed up they have her questioning if she was wrong.

Sapphire 🪬 :

Bcuz having kids is the only way on the planet to get tired 🤦🏾‍♀️

JackieT114 :

Where do people find these “friends” 😒

Jade.R :

Nta because what is the limit with so called friends that act like this. We need to be calling people out on their bullshit. Yes I’m a mum you get tired but studying and exams are a different kind of stress and it’s a lot of pressure

Mimi Mgr :

I hate when people say, ypu don't know what tired is...everyone's tired point is different.Some people have illness, so they can't do as much before they get tired. Others an run marathon and be just little tired.

Daylight :

Needs new friends it happens when some start having kids while other don’t . Go and find new friends without kids who are also studying

Kay :

As a SHAM mum (lone/ single parent) of two, you did NOTHING wrong! I've been both uni student and parent, yes parenting is extremely difficult but it looks like she has a LOT of help. And if someone is struggling, you can STILL be emphatic and kind.

MoYo :

3kidsx22=💀😭