I have been trying to teach this lesson for years. If you do everything for your child, they will grow up as adult thinking everyone supposed to do everything for them.
AMEN!!! All 3 of my kids had chores and responsibilities since 3. they are all adults in the military now. capable and self sufficient.
2026-01-12 05:45:38
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Rising Sun ☀️ :
All my kids turned out fine
2026-01-11 14:55:19
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Lynn Nelson :
Correct. At the age of 3, children should have personal and household chores. And they should be disciplined when they don’t complete them.
2026-01-12 10:24:13
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Atajr_73🤘 :
Teach your children to be accountable
2026-01-12 06:40:09
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Carmelo :
Soo true about childhood patterns growing into adult accountabilitys
2026-01-11 20:00:56
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Becky :
children live what they learn
2026-01-11 17:57:47
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Edgar Owens ❌❌ :
DAMN THAT MAKES SENSE
2026-01-11 13:12:17
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thedanodonnell :
the only thing ill add to this is... when a child asks for help, dont do it for them, help them, teach them. help is ok.
2026-01-12 13:00:51
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Mxxjzz :
Problem is we never realized this when we were raising children ! Wish I realized this when my kids were little 😭
2026-01-11 23:27:43
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Red :
💯so true
2026-01-11 14:21:55
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Patsy ♾️ :
I got criticism from my family because I was teaching my children to fish instead of giving them a fish for a day. We're proud of our 5 hardworking, responsible and respectful adults
2026-01-12 00:34:29
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Vee Be :
It also allows them to problem solve.
2026-01-11 18:44:05
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JU3 :
great information!!!
2026-01-11 11:03:22
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Al234redanet :
Thank you for sharing this information 🙏🏾
2026-01-11 04:18:05
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Mopar 2 :
ABSOLUTELY TRUE
2026-01-12 12:49:58
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❌🌼🌺betty68#🌺🌼❌ :
That’s why when my children were younger they helped from the time they were able to help me
2026-01-12 06:59:22
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956Mom💖 :
Honestly, as a youngest child my family enabled me. When I finally learned....it hit home hard. I agree with this.
2026-01-11 23:33:24
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Vardanov :
Oh please! I never did chores and as an adult I do my chores. I learned when I moved out I had to do chores on my own. It was common sense. Still my parents visit and they don't want me to do anything they still take care of everything while they visit.
2026-01-12 02:44:03
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alfredchapman760 :
Good message too parents ..
2026-01-11 16:58:38
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KC-N-ThePines :
Now, I happen to agree with this💯! I have always been a firm believer in teaching your child responsibility from the time they begin to understand communication. Of course the amount of responsibility should be age appropriate.
2026-01-11 23:38:18
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R.E.M. :
I call it, everybody gets a trophy.
2026-01-11 15:59:35
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