@twohottakes.us: AITA for not changing my tradition day to my DIL and making things uncomfortable? #redditstorytime #redditreadings #redditstories #twohottakes #reddit_tiktok #aitareddit #storytelling #askreddit #aita #fyp #Relationship
it's feijoada. it's a Brazilian dish with beans and a lot of meat, and we eat it with rice and a specific sort of flour. eating it two days in a row is... brave.
2026-01-09 20:23:16
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downmama :
She didn’t want to get close to the family, she wanted to challenge her MIL
2026-01-10 03:02:16
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hazlinaumar :
DIL is disrespectful
2026-01-09 22:57:37
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ᴠᴇᴇ🌞 :
If Wendy wants to be closer to the family, then Wendy needs to respect all traditions
2026-01-09 19:43:01
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Ruthie diaz :
She did it deliberately and you were right to keep your tradition alive
2026-01-09 18:36:31
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Lotus :
NTA. DIL wanted to upstage the mother. A traditional dish is just that. Handed down many generations with the same spirit. Its not just about food its about people. If nobody actually ate it, simply put it was awful. This blame is Riley on the son.
2026-01-09 21:55:51
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Tamara :
If you want to get close to the family not showing up to their traditional family party is probably not the best move.
2026-01-10 01:55:21
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ElevatorPads :
Your DIL wants your matriarchy position. Which is earned over years of service, not marrying into a position
2026-01-09 23:44:14
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Stacey :
June and December are her tradition dates, there’s another 10 months worth of dates to pick from or am I missing like traditional season to this dish. Surprised the son didn’t really explain it to the gf aswell🤔
2026-01-10 01:14:01
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paniniw :
the DIL did it on purpose, she pick that specific date to start conflicts. everyone can see it, she have entire year to host and still pick that day
2026-01-10 05:39:33
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DoubleM :
"Her invite was sent first". No. Moms invite is a standing invite every year. Everyone knows when it is. So moms is always an automatic invite
2026-01-10 06:44:17
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Lou FF4TW :
Ops is a long standing tradition, why would Wendy try to highjack it
2026-01-09 21:36:46
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38MommaD :
NTAH… Daughter in law picked that day on purpose!
2026-01-09 18:34:27
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s :
the daughter in law has 363 days to make a dish
2026-01-10 01:37:36
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fkaofficialmy :
Professional chef or not, you DO NOT mess with a family recipe
2026-01-10 00:50:11
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katzz :
Wendy can make her own tradition any other day, just not on yours.
2026-01-09 21:04:27
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midge :
Wendy made things uncomfortable.
2026-01-09 23:43:50
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reens1999 :
NTA she wanted to help to steal the recipe then compete with you
2026-01-09 21:52:47
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clever_sloth :
Don’t mess with the feijoada… specially your mother in law’s feijoada… speeeecially your Brazilian mother in law’s feijoada. So many boundaries being crossed here…
2026-01-10 00:52:05
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Tiria :
Is the daughter in law American?
2026-01-10 00:15:12
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Shauna :
The DIL is making a power play.
2026-01-10 00:25:52
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jazbec15 :
I’ve been married to my husband 10 years and we got married young. Even I know not to mess with tradition 🤦🏻♀️
2026-01-09 20:01:43
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Shazza :
why can't wendy start her own tradition instead of stealing hers
2026-01-10 02:35:09
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DRae. :
"my Dear Son...grown an Fing spine...I have done dinner on these 2 days for years!!!! You know it and so does your wife. Pick a different day."
2026-01-11 21:05:06
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cece rizzo :
ntah if she wants to be part of the family do it on another day u can’t come in and change a tradition
2026-01-09 18:53:01
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