@bella.dane: Seek to understand before you seek to be understood

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clearlybecoming
Hazel Ann :
absolutely! being open-minded is so important
2026-01-09 16:28:36
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sarah.gratitude
sarah.gratitude :
Yes!! I hate when people get so defensive and won’t listen to anyone. I love to keep an open perspective and try to understand others meaning behind their beliefs
2026-01-09 16:45:41
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martus118
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It is called emotional intelligence and maturity
2026-01-11 14:50:31
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jac_9_
JAC✨ :
“Seek to understand before you seek to be understood” 👏🏻
2026-01-10 14:58:24
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mynameisduey
Kerri Boo :
I think it's self awareness, emotional intelligence, and critical thinking 👏
2026-01-11 01:37:11
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_hancoyle
hannah coyle :
My FAVORITE content creator. So beautiful inside and out ♥️
2026-01-09 16:02:25
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biniroth
Bina :
Okay Margot Robbie ✨
2026-01-09 21:51:31
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chelsie_sewell
chelsie_sewell :
I think this is a big sign of self confidence too!!! I truly think high intelligence walks hand in hand with self confidence. If you’re okay with who you are/being wrong/being misunderstood, it’s easier to explore others perspectives and let them disagree with you
2026-01-09 17:21:11
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hellosm83
heavybookshelf :
Funfuct: there’s a concept in cognitive psychology that says you have to have IQ at least 120 to understand mental illnesses and processes on a deeper level which is basically equivalent to the ability of looking at things from different perspectives
2026-01-09 20:12:31
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tabitam1
Tabita :
It's called critical THINKING, but very few think before they speak.
2026-02-28 23:12:22
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its_denisaaaa
Denisa MaTea 💌 :
An open and curious mind are some of the most beautiful qualities a human can have
2026-01-09 17:37:55
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stephie21128
Stephanie :
Your content is truly so educational and interesting!
2026-01-09 21:10:17
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kamilaakobi
Kamila :
This! Until it comes to human rights
2026-01-26 15:41:41
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ashleybhay
Ashley Hay | Denver Realtor :
Could not agree more, THANK YOU for speaking on this
2026-01-09 16:30:11
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studyingwithshrisha
shrisha :
hi you inspire me so much
2026-01-09 15:42:51
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collegekat1988
Yari T. Ceja :
✨✨✨
2026-01-09 16:44:40
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katsubomi
katsubomi :
I couldn't agree more!
2026-01-09 22:22:54
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chemistry.academy3
Chemistry Academy :
Yessssssss
2026-01-09 22:16:12
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courtneybrightly
✨Courtney Brightly✨ :
Absolutely agree and this is one of my biggest pet peeves in people! We should be willing to think about why other people would do things they way they do, and to try to understand their perspective. Sometimes it changes how we think, sometimes it doesn’t, but it always helps us be more tolerant, welcoming, and open minded 💙
2026-01-09 15:54:21
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myttreg34
Blop :
This is why Socrate hated debate and preferred dialogue. For him, debates were clashes of egos, while dialogue involved the exchange of ideas free from ego and sentiment. He laid down three conditions for discussions to be cooperative rather than confrontational. First, one must consider the other not as an enemy but as a friend with whom one seeks the truth. Second, one must be sincere with the other and accept the possibility of being wrong. Finally, one must want to find the truth, or at least reach a consensus.
2026-01-12 00:22:02
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paulinkaraj
paulinka :
Every time I listen to a video of yours I’m so inspired to learn more and more
2026-01-09 18:11:23
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evetrieslife
EveTriesLife :
I do this a lot..play the devils advocate and pretty much everyone told me it irritates them when I do it...meanwhile I'm not doing it on purpose..I just think it's not an objective or constructive conversation if we're not taking all sides into consideration
2026-01-14 22:27:31
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jessicaluc5
Jessica Luc :
Been listening to your podcast & reading your substack to unrot my brain and i beeeen loving it!! Ur my inspo 🥰
2026-01-09 17:17:55
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sconyeaj2019
user4067963702388 :
Girl you look just like Margot Robbie, gorgeous
2026-01-10 17:56:14
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