the scientess
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Z❣️ :
💯. Fear & shame is truly the cruelest cycle
2026-01-10 00:22:27
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Mood4Food :
please everything still scares me I’m 30
2026-01-10 02:20:39
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luvthegamee :
Sheltering parenting made me think fun equals bad and individuality was not encouraged whatsoever now it’s hard to trust myself with anything especially dating because my mind is telling me I can’t….I’m studying abroad this semester I hope it helps me be independent and get over this unnecessary fear of everything
2026-01-10 08:07:38
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vsw872 :
and then since youre not encouraged to make your own decisions, your parents end up not respecting you or treat you like an adult because you dont have the confidence to break away . its like they set you up to fail then also resent you
2026-01-12 10:50:16
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𝙡𝙪𝙣𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙨𝙤𝙪𝙡 :
I was also raised in a everything= fear/stress, my mind protected me from going insane by not consciously processing that anxiety but instead processing it as physical pain which manifested as migraines (that are triggered by literally every aspect of living because everything = scary) and I'm still unlearning all that
2026-01-09 20:59:32
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gn00r :
its killed a lot of my natual curiosity and i really struggle with this even now
2026-01-12 03:43:55
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manpreetxxkaur :
me too! Also, being poor makes you fearful of losing safety and stability so you don’t have money as a safety net from bad things that happen.
2026-01-11 06:23:26
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Riya :
“I was basically scared of my own freedom” and that’s on growing up without self-trust :(
2026-01-12 16:31:53
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Ts :
This mindset has crippled me for way too long 😔
2026-01-10 19:25:13
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shinyyellowafterglow :
I think parents have this fear for there kids and they pass it on to the kids
2026-01-10 20:47:08
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V :
I opened up about this to my sister and she scoffed at me bruh
2026-01-10 17:45:48
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Kellaiiii :
I relate so much!!! I freed myself when i took my first solo trip… changed my life forever
2026-01-11 10:13:48
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mikaraela :
My dad projected all of his anxieties and catastrophic fears onto me and my nervous system and I grew up without any sense of my own competency or self-assuredness and my parents wonder why I’m stuck in arrested development
2026-01-24 00:19:42
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Anne :
I swear, every video of yours that pops up on my fyp is like you've lived my life. Everything you say, I have experienced it to a T.
2026-01-09 21:40:02
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Nena🧣 :
Girl are you in my head?
2026-01-11 11:43:36
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obygenn :
I understand this so well!
2026-01-09 20:43:59
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gᝰ ྀིྀིྀིྀི :
Do it scared , i saw this quote last year and i actually followed it , i slowly experienced the things that i fear and they became regular to me !! This is also close enough to “ exposure therapy “
2026-01-13 17:28:20
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misstrillmill :
That’s why I don’t listen to my parents
2026-02-01 20:10:11
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appleuser7325220 :
He has not given us a spirit of fear but power love and a sound mind! Go on a solo trip! It’s mindset changing!
2026-01-10 03:02:00
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☆ :
It’s so deeply rooted in my brain that even getting over this fear mindset makes me believe that something is gonna go in the worst way possible.
2026-01-11 10:40:06
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koobadoo :
and crippling shame💔
2026-01-23 02:32:27
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magijill :
At this point, i feel like going no contact is the only thing that can truly “heal” me.. Everytime i talk to my parents i get triggered
2026-01-14 22:25:51
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Never have felt more seen
2026-01-10 01:17:30
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abdirzaq :
Courage is not the absence of fear; it is the ability to act while fear is present. When fear is no longer seen as an enemy but as a survival messenger, it transforms from a barrier into a teacher.
2026-01-10 04:57:50
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