It's called boundaries..., i operate a very strict program these days
2026-01-10 09:44:20
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Epic Naturally :
This is actually true, they want to prove themselves to you.
2026-01-10 07:18:02
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breecanclimbtrees :
Yeah and don’t be afraid to pull back or ghost when you don’t like how they’re acting. Either they’ll step up or they won’t, either way you win
2026-01-10 23:45:53
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DIANOU :
Yes because you respect yourself
2026-01-10 17:53:15
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Debrianh Joseph :
It’s a strict program over here!
2026-01-11 17:59:43
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Gabriela Salomon :
The program must be strict
2026-01-10 18:46:07
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Shelby :
Been are wired to have to work & chase something!
2026-01-09 22:36:45
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sunnyberrystarfish :
Even when they say no, they mean yes
2026-01-10 17:26:51
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Mani 💫 :
It literally makes them better men✨
2026-01-11 04:11:00
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lenore :
strict doesnt mean possessive/controlling remember that
2026-01-10 13:30:54
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janelleology :
That’s because he sees your boundaries as a challenge
2026-02-04 22:53:07
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🧚🏽♀️ :
Everytime i been strict with a guy they ended up complimenting how ive strong boundaries. So for a guy to see u as a long time partner or wife u need to be not easy
2026-01-10 03:53:43
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jonnyrotten :
I think you mean we love a woman with boundaries. 100%
2026-01-11 02:15:48
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Jeniabear :
It’s because you show you’re not afraid to lose them and they don’t want to be needed
2026-01-11 02:58:21
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Tia :
I was strict with him last night and today he booked a vacation for us 😂
2026-01-30 03:39:32
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𝘽𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙩𝙖𝙣𝙮 :
I did, he told everyone I was mean 🥰
2026-01-11 05:07:32
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my_bookish_diaries_ :
This is so true. They get obsessed
2026-01-13 11:44:44
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Yikes™️ :
I snapped at a male coworker I can’t stand who got on my nerves one too many times, and ever since that day he’s helped me when I’m carrying something heavy, has started wearing cologne, and doesn’t give me any attitude but is still a jerk to everyone else. So he’s either terrified of me, or obsessed with me.
2026-01-11 08:13:59
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Thehizofizo :
This is probably why my Grandpy was obsessed with my Grammy. She ran a strict sassy program!
2026-01-11 14:20:54
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TheMuslimLife :
I saw this in slow realtime in my marriage. 10 years married, 3 years happily. Only started having a thriving marriage when I stopped doing everything for him and when I started putting myself first and became essentially what I thought was selfish and rude lol and I’ve never turned back
2026-01-13 00:41:02
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Kate Arnold :
Yuppp. Started doing this recently with a long time crush and completely flipped our dynamic. 🙂↔️
2026-01-11 02:57:53
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Cafadovi :
Don’t misunderstand this ladies, you are strict with yourself, not him. No nagging, no mothering him, no asking him over and over to do better.
2026-01-26 15:38:39
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Michelle Bratkovich :
Being cool girl doesn’t work every time I put my foot down he acts right.
2026-01-14 18:34:22
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Gia :
Yeah but how do yall do this? Please provide examples? I’m being so fr I need help with this lol
2026-01-11 03:41:24
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Jesuslovesyou :
This is very true, but he will still cheat
2026-01-11 12:00:19
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