Christie Hoffman
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Friday 09 January 2026 22:48:28 GMT
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Kambalechristian :
i just never explain. i know they dont even care about what i think. NO CONTACT IS THE ONLY WAY
2026-01-11 15:43:38
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Christie Hoffman :
Or do you want to learn what to do with the stress of being misunderstood when setting boundaries next?
2026-01-09 23:01:04
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Mamalotz :
I’m the only one who’s ever gave 2 shits about my parents. The only one who bought my own house and don’t get to live for free in a house that my parents bought. The only one out of all 4 of us that has kids. The only one who makes the effort so that my siblings and parents get to see my kids. No one is coming to us or to my house. But I’m expected to cart them around so that my extended family can have a relationship with them. All I ask? When I’m invited to holiday get togethers that we’re not eating dinner at their bedtime. I ask multiple times what time to make DAMN SURE that they don’t run into one another. Dinner is ALWAYS pushed out to my kids bedtime. I spoke up about it 2 nights ago. My dad went off, my sisters joined in, my mom said nothing as usual. I cut everyone off, unfriended them, deleted Facebook, blocked their numbers. And this is why. I set a SIMPLE boundary. The same one I’ve had for 4 years. It’s broken EVERY SINGLE TIME. But because I bring it up once…in 4 years….im the problem.
2026-01-13 12:31:38
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JoshySunnyStar9000 :
You are the best, and your videos have helped me soo much with grief for escaping my dysfunctional bloodline system, with like 65+ people involved. You really are helping us narc abuse survivors 🥰🥹💖 just wanted to say
2026-01-10 05:34:04
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user27541637 :
My 89 yr old grandfather has been my best friend my entire life. I had a baby 2 years ago and the boundaries that came with that, he told me I destroyed our family. It’s been heartbreaking.
2026-01-18 11:49:47
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sammigarett :
How does one handle the stress, anxiety, anger and guilt? Asking for a friend 😅
2026-01-18 03:02:07
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Abeoma :
being true and authentic, always ends in guilt tripping and gaslighting 😔
2026-02-20 14:41:18
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Marie Miloe :
i gave up, it was too exhausting. best decision everrrrr
2026-02-10 09:37:19
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Jan Elfy :
please make a post on complex ptsd and one on absent parents.
2026-01-13 08:23:28
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sir great wiz🇪🇨🇺🇸 :
what if the roles were reversed? without knowing better, I taught my kids meshed in a codependent relationship and when I learned boundaries they did not. my ex still doesn't get it and reinforces ignoring boundaries. so my kids don't understand them.
2026-01-11 00:55:31
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𝓒 🖤 :
My mother says I only like you when you don’t yell 😂
2026-01-12 00:11:25
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opinionatednick :
I moved to Austria from the US to give myself the room to heal.
2026-01-13 14:29:09
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Clarrissa :
Call before you come over is a rule. The boundary would be - if you don’t call before you come over I’m not answering the door.
2026-02-20 05:25:40
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kenmccarthy317 :
Its seriously like you know my whole family. But now I only communicate with about 50% and its been amazing after dropping half of my triggers. Thank you for your messages 🙏
2026-01-09 23:07:04
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Elora Cook :
listening to this gave me anxiety 😅
2026-01-26 17:04:30
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daniellemaria :
literally living this right now 🤦🏻♀️❤️🩹
2026-01-10 05:53:30
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StoneColdBush :
Greenland.lol
2026-01-20 13:59:59
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Christie Hoffman :
Do you want to learn about how to set a boundary next?
2026-01-09 23:00:52
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三裂き賢才 :
do both
2026-01-25 23:30:25
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Kristen :
My dad mocks me for setting boundaries
2026-03-02 21:38:58
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Kili :
So true
2026-01-12 04:56:47
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katie.⭒°｡⋆☽ :
thank you. I'm struggling so bad right now.
2026-01-25 18:39:01
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CMama :
This is great! Thank you for sharing! Trying to navigate through this myself and it’s wild!
2026-01-21 17:31:29
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Kacy Daily :
I’m working on this while raising my kids… not easy
2026-04-12 02:52:12
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margaretdmitchell :
Not just boomer parents (and not all boomer parents. I am a boomer but not a parent.) It’s every generation in a family line that is toxic. And the further you go back, often the worse it was. Hopefully, each generation overcomes more and more. Sounds like you’re doing better. I had to learn not to expect earlier generations to change.
2026-02-11 11:10:16
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