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ucup's :
i still don't have an idea to handle her
2026-01-10 14:43:23
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❨･¨⬮ iyahhh <3 :
One of the most exhausting parts of being anxious is always trying to understand from an avoidant person’s perspective. Avoidant people are often said to distance themselves because they are afraid of getting hurt and to protect themselves but they end up hurting the one who stays. Me being a anxious person while liking an avoidant person feels like standing on a battlefield where the enemy lives inside me. I tried so hard to understand her, her silence, her distance, her need to disappear but while understanding her, I slowly lose myself. It becomes draining, to the point where I no longer know what I truly feel. I am constantly fighting an invisible war: Do I choose what my heart feels, or do I choose her comfort? Do I stay true to myself, or do I keep shrinking just so she won’t leave? I don’t want to lose her, but I get exhausted by a love that comes and goes without warning, one night filled with laughter and warmth then suddenly days or weeks of absence. In the end, I lost her. I lost her because I slowly became avoidant. Rather than telling her what I truly felt, I chose myself and my peace. I withdrew to protect my heart, and because of that, what we had ended.
2026-01-12 12:31:25
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️emka :
Only my boy bestfriend really knows how to handle me HAHAHA but yeah what had to happen happened.
2026-01-10 14:08:39
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Ren._ :
Ngl, at first i was mad and confused, but then i do thorough lookups and studied about it just made me felt pitiful for her. I pray you all avoidants heal from your traumas, it was never your fault at first place. (from secured person)
2026-01-14 06:19:52
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meowie!! :
I still can understand her, I need help btw. I don't want to lose her, she's almost perfect,but that damn past m.u. destroyed her perspective in love, while I'm here trying my best to be the best suitor for her. Right now I'm courting her.
2026-01-11 11:57:34
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ms.nimxsz :
He doesn't understand my avoidant attachment.
2026-01-31 00:06:05
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bajaners :
i try so hard but i feel so ignored, i dont want to limit my love, but at the same time it hurts me so bad. I feel like i am being ignored so much like do i even matter? the thing is i understand why she pulls away but how about what i feel? does she too think about how i feel? i just want clarity from everything, and i just want it to be her. So i really really want to understand her
2026-02-03 16:52:44
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urs :
a little too good to be true😔
2026-01-10 16:03:38
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dih :
i don't care if she have an avoidant attachment, I will still love.her and I wil understand her and never ever give up
2026-02-03 12:47:33
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MD🦋 :
As an Anxious type, it is so draining, exhausting and painful to love and to always understand the Avoidant types as this also meant self destruction for us. It is an never ending battle. Either it continues or one should leave.
2026-02-22 06:36:05
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M ♡ :
Unfair for them. Just let them go.
2026-03-02 10:51:56
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Ceejism :
Like bruh what do i even do, they want distance so ofc i distance myself and now your telling me thats not what yall want????
2026-03-01 08:35:41
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Andrei Guazon :
You can't really change an avoidant unless they want to change and if you force it, you'll be the one changing.
2026-01-16 07:31:25
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Lucas :
You learn to understand them just for them to choose another person.
2026-01-28 05:46:31
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EM 🤘 :
nakakadrained
2026-01-10 16:59:26
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Liv. :
He's so me, I dont mind understanding the whole avoidant situation if I love someone, I respect your space, and I dont mind taking things slow and slow 💖💖
2026-01-10 19:44:44
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bryan :
@tsizei:i really wanna learn everything about her and handle all her moods, cant lose her. thats why i wanna learn a lot to handle her avoidant issues and so on:(
2026-01-10 17:24:13
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m :
when he tries to understand your avoidant issues instead of distancing himself away from you >>>>
2026-03-12 13:07:45
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Simon Clark :
you can't really change an avoidant unless they want to change and if you force it you'll be the one changing
2026-01-12 16:07:00
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gatiodavinci :
Inimah pov dia ke gue
2026-01-10 17:00:00
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:
she left me for another man, without knowing i invalidate my own feelings just to understand her avoidant attachment, i have anxious attachment, but i still understand her cuz i love her more than she knows.
2026-02-08 19:44:51
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mayatberjalan :
@czei:i really wanna learn everything about her and handle all her moods, cant lose her. thats why i wanna learn a lot to handle her avoidant issues and so on:(
2026-03-21 12:30:14
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キアン :
sana ganto rin sya ☹️☹️☹️
2026-02-02 14:40:59
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⃟ :
I'm trying my best lads. won't give up
2026-04-03 11:46:46
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