@ask_julia: When people gossip about you, the worst thing you can do is panic and “explain.” This is the power move I use to protect my reputation (Robert Greene’s Law 5 energy) — calm, classy, and it makes the rumor die on arrival. If you’re in your glow-up era, learning boundaries, and refusing to be the topic… this is for you. Save this for the next time someone tries to smear your name. #girltalk #darkpsychologytricks #gossipgirltiktok #highvaluewoman #creatorsearchinsights
I use a different tactic:
1️⃣ I cut off contact with the person spreading gossip—no access, no updates.
2️⃣ When others mention what’s being said or that person, I genuinely have deniability: “I don’t know (what’s being said or anything about that person), I haven’t been in contact for a long time.”
3️⃣ I just show up and stay consistent.
Gossip dies when there’s no access and no reaction. This is social judo: you don’t fight the rumor, you remove the mat.
2026-01-12 10:47:48
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Safaa :
ugh narcissists be bad mouthing and trying to destroy your character
2026-01-12 10:43:22
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HappyJackie💗 :
Too late. I acted crazy.
2026-02-15 16:31:34
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jadedrein :
sorry, if anyone participates in those gossip, I don't want them in my life. I just let them be. they talk about each other too behind their backs.
2026-01-12 12:36:37
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Lauren Jay🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦 :
Or silence . And show up
2026-01-12 21:24:28
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April_Excelle :
Raise your standard, not your blood pressure 👏👏
2026-01-14 03:40:59
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Bumbicat :
Your like a celebrity no one wants to hear them talking about themselves but everyone wants to hear about you hahaha
2026-01-13 14:25:04
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Joy :
I’m not addressing anything 💯
2026-01-30 03:20:24
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🌸cheemi🌸 :
gossip will die if u don't react just ignore it people think they want to think duh it's not my problem. anymore I'm just busy with my own life
2026-01-12 01:21:58
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💎 :
I blocked them all because I dont know the resource but I’m pretty sure somebody said something
2026-04-08 18:15:58
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Ana Jocelyn :
girl you just saved my life tbh, i was always the one explaining the truth and now i found out everyone thought i was lying. this found me at the right time (i hope)❤️
2026-01-19 05:53:41
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Victor 🖤 :
are you rose McGowan 🥰
2026-03-17 11:57:57
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ggyuhfedhj :
I don't engage or investigate when people gossip about me, I don't care what goes on in the lives of people below me. But I've always said to people who come to me to gossip about somebody,"Did you know people who gossip use it like a binky to sooth their deep insecurities?" Then stay silent. works.. every...time
2026-01-11 22:19:20
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~🇮🇹nicole🇺🇦~ :
AMEN 🙏
2026-01-13 20:37:23
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sally :
why talk? 😂 its good let them talk🥰
2026-01-22 15:06:06
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rowenacarino38 :
thank you.
2026-01-10 14:01:30
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Starla Edney :
This is gold ✨
2026-02-02 04:01:34
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Cherry🍒 :
I know that’s right💕
2026-01-11 02:04:25
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key☆ :
so there is hope?
2026-01-11 11:43:57
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Lex Mex :
The only thing tou haven’t mentioned is how DO you deal with a person refusing to stop spreading rumours about you?
2026-01-13 16:39:19
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Ziya!♡- :
I was volunteering at my clg and this guy who's a frnd of my female frnd.. he comes up to me and accuses me for "spreading rumours"?? Accused me that alot of people described an appearance of a girl who is half blonde, not very tall, and studying this course, I told my dad abt this he said he's jus finding reasons to talk w me
2026-01-10 22:51:25
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yolanda_mjoli :
Definitely reading this book
2026-04-25 00:41:15
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. :
Ty❤️
2026-03-03 09:52:33
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