@heryogimind: There’s a psychological basis for the idea that the more insecurity a person experiences, the more it can be expressed through performative energy. #psychologyfacts #basis #humanbehaviour #foryoupage
Some of the most charismatic people I’ve ever met have been extremely insecure.
2026-01-13 19:58:26
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coolio :
They make up stories how great they are😭
2026-01-11 05:25:08
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Deanna :
It’s soooo obvious too to everyone but themselves
2026-02-24 21:53:39
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Cristine Pagdanganan :
This is also the reason why we post selfies whenever we feel down
2026-02-22 13:56:59
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anais :
When someone is being performative, is it noticeable to others? Just curious. I know a lot of people like this who wants/likes external validation but I always feel like I’m other thinking it
2026-01-22 21:31:19
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Charmeezie :
Yup I always catch a mans pattern because I am not clingy. I give space and thats just how I am and it makes them insecure because they want me to be clingy so they will try to humble me like bro just chill
2026-02-23 15:16:19
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Maximum56 :
Yea it’s super obvious when someone’s performing, not sure if they realise it themselves though
2026-01-17 09:39:42
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peace :
As a first born daughter... I've need this for 27yrs. I've never been myself. Doing too much for people thinking I was kind but people pleaser😭😭
2026-01-11 08:32:14
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skylerhampton00 :
It’s sad actually
2026-01-19 07:15:39
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🛡️ Self-Respect Coach :
Omg this is a perfect description of people-pleasing‼️‼️thank you for sharing!💪🏼
2026-01-10 19:59:55
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Hank B :
I like external validation! I just don't get any...I have to validate myself 😞
2026-01-10 22:24:42
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Manble :
Same as conceited person… we might see it as highly confident while actually they are the most insecure if we know them personally
2026-03-03 15:09:09
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andielavie :
i want her to read this
2026-02-05 14:25:35
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Lili :
Ohhhhh now it makes sense with my performative managers 😳
2026-02-09 14:31:26
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Sick Cunt :
Codependent attachment
2026-01-13 01:41:24
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danielraymondstopperjr :
BEING INSECURE IS OKAY
2026-02-25 21:01:42
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stefanponce :
Loved this
2026-01-11 05:30:29
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Danielle Loontjens :
This is why I’m going to counseling. I’m trying to find a way to remain authentic to who I am without constantly compromising to people please or adapt to what other people want
2026-02-12 15:02:32
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user162927492 :
I feel like this is me. I’ve been bullied in high school and I couldnt get friends because of my acne. I opted out to outwardly expressing a certain interest in music just so I could get people to like me. It worked out lol. I started loving rock music because of this. But I was so into pop music prior high school so lol. Major shift
2026-01-31 15:21:38
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Tara :
And when you refuse to feed into their validation, you become enemy #1
2026-02-18 16:39:09
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siopaooo :
I am like this :(( how am I going to heal?
2026-03-29 16:32:13
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Jona Tariq Okonkwo VI :
So how do i fix this😭
2026-02-09 00:18:06
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