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Sunday 11 January 2026 00:04:11 GMT
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✨🧡🤍Chelsie 🤍🩷✨ :
Decentering parents really is final boss
2026-01-12 17:56:31
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kayla 🦇🌛 :
decentering parents is the hardest one. only one I have left until im unstoppable
2026-01-12 00:41:06
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🌺𝓝𝓲𝓶𝓶𝓸𝓱🌺 :
Also, Decenter Your Age. it's crucial as a woman.
2026-01-14 15:04:16
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Lindsay :
AND YOUR HOMETOWN. Get out and explore new people and places. PLEASE
2026-01-12 22:38:43
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🍵 :
Financial freedom gets you this!
2026-01-12 18:32:42
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Breverlygrillz :
De centering parents was the final boss and the HARDEST 😩😩😭😭💔💔 I DID IT 🥹
2026-01-11 08:13:04
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christina :
Decentering your parents does not mean that you have to cut them off completely & disrespect them… And I think a lot of the comments are misunderstanding that. It’s about setting boundaries and completely doing things for yourself without their influence.
2026-01-12 21:02:20
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elliot jm :
decentering men is easy enough but unlearning the misogynistic self talk and feelings of unworthiness is SO HARD
2026-01-12 00:40:55
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vixenkittygirl :
And you’re going to continue to feel hollow until you pour into yourself!
2026-01-11 00:34:55
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Kemi :
Decenter age as well. There are no deadlines.
2026-01-14 14:57:23
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LEMONADE🍋 :
Decenter attractiveness too. Worrying too much about how you’re perceived in terms of looks will ruin your experience more often than not, speaking from experience.
2026-01-19 23:36:44
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NellyDlamini🇿🇦 :
Decentering doesnt mean disrespecting, lets keep this in mind
2026-01-16 13:50:21
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dolly viv :
They gonna purposely miss your point but I hear you!
2026-01-11 13:43:11
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Bryson Henry :
Experiencing a person who centers all three? Hard to watch…
2026-01-15 01:36:39
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Normalgirlintheworld :
Heavy on the parents cuz baby this is UR LIFE. Not ur parents, don’t waste it living for them instead of urself
2026-02-03 03:03:29
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drobbins0927 :
Beautiful message. Thank you for this important mindset to carry.
2026-01-14 17:37:06
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Safia :
the most silent repost
2026-01-14 01:23:50
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blumeworld :
This is so poignant, I’ve been thinking about this a lot recently. It’s a lot of hard inner work and introspection. Side note, it also sucks that many men will never do that inner work that they need to to dismantle these harmful patriarchal beliefs.
2026-01-31 16:58:19
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✨ Hot Rat Mother ✨ :
you literally have to break the generational curse
2026-01-14 14:57:28
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saxamophone :
Yup yup yup. I think the parents is the most difficult but you have to just ... stop caring what they think.
2026-01-11 01:40:55
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ASIA DEAN :
i did religion first, men second, parents last. FINALLY I AM FREE. FREE INDEED.
2026-01-13 21:19:14
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Sarah :
and sometimes you need to decenter religion to actually feel connected to God 🫢
2026-01-12 15:28:32
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sua! 🌞 :
decenter my parents is the hugest wall for me right now
2026-01-13 10:26:44
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enri 🌀 :
perioddddd
2026-02-15 21:56:09
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