@olis_129:

iba :

I'm done playing the psychologist

rezrerez :

The next step is realizing that understanding why someone hurt you doesnt mean it was justified and that you can let them step all over you. Dont be a doormat.

24 :

until they start taking advantage of that very fact

Blueberry Cheesecake :

WATASHI :

I can't hate them, so I hated myself instead.

amellia :

It sucks

Mapanakit Queen :

Sometimes, I hate it, because why the heck I always understand them and even gaslight myself

rasin_raneem :

understandable ≠ acceptable

notzeleieiei :

i can hate on them ofc, but i still think about why they are like this, so sometimes i do feel guilty bc i do know that they’re still suffering. I also jst ends up not hating or fighting them bc i dont think its worth it and ill not gain anything by hating or fighting them, but i do care too much sometimes. I hate it.

🧔‍♀️ :

being emotional intelligent doesn't mean you can have all the things you want, intelligence can uncover cruel truths, it can show you why a person or something did it, you can never fully hate or love a person because of this, it's not a gift, it's a curse

Halo Aku Aurora :

This is so true and it makes me mad. It's unfair.

a b c x y z :

I understand where they are coming from but I also understand that their pain doesn't give them a free pass to inflict pain on me too.

🧷⋆˚ماريا البلوشي 𝜗𝜚˚⋆ :

can't repost but know I was here

amel :

Menjadi orang yang cerdas secara emosional berarti Anda tidak akan pernah sepenuhnya membenci seseorang karena Anda memahami bahwa ada alasan mengapa mereka bersikap seperti itu.

￴ ￴￴￴￴ ￴￴￴￴￴￴￴jondev7 :

I can't hate someone because there are things I can't do that they can

@AbdiTales 🖋️📜🇸🇴 :

Understanding someone doesn’t mean you owe them forgiveness or tolerance. You can get the ‘why’ and still say, ‘This isn’t okay Empathy and boundaries can exist at the same time

Zzeyy ^•^ :

i reposted it,For the people who can't repost

arckylleholic. :

️ :

Lhey :

oh so I have this hahahah

Cruella☠️ :

Fr..and I was get trapped be sympathy and get revenge on them at the same time.

dị biệt xã hội :

being emotionally inteligent makes me so mad to the point that i almost forgive my own sa'er ( ? )

kyden :

and I'm stupid for being like that, I can't truly be angry to them

. :

can't hate them until I know the whole story of why they did that 😓

jepjep :

at the end the only one you can hate about is yourself.