@melrobbins: One of the biggest lies you’ve been telling yourself is that being harder on yourself will make you better. It won’t. According to Terry Real - one of the most sought-after couples therapists in the world - harshness has zero value in your relationship with yourself or anyone else. Not toward your partner. Not toward the people you love. And especially not toward yourself. In this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, Terry shares the kind of relationship advice nobody teaches you - the kind that quietly transforms how you show up in love, conflict, and intimacy. Whether you’re in a relationship, healing from one, or hoping to build a healthy one, you need to listen to this episode. 🎧 “The Best Relationship Advice You Will Ever Receive.” Listen now on Spotify or Apple Podcasts - search “The Mel Robbins Podcast Best Relationship Advice.” #melrobbins #melrobbinspodcast #relationshipadvice #couplestherapy

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isabelllcole
izzy cole :
Your book has changed my life! Thank you Mel for everything you do!
2026-01-12 16:46:06
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trudycandy
Trudy🇿🇦 :
Proverbs 16:24: "Kind words are like honey—sweet to the soul and healthy for the body"
2026-01-12 18:31:31
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nickdlvkoup
Nick :
Mel…your book & podcast has helped change my life for the better. I’ll forever be grateful 🙏🏽
2026-01-12 23:52:10
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lorydu13
LoryD :
Wow! “Say it like you’re on my side. Then I’ll listen.” Profound simplicity and beauty.
2026-01-12 18:31:59
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adaihesiabah
Ada :
if its not kind, I am not interested
2026-01-12 17:55:24
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doctorlungs
Doctorlungs :
“Say it like you’re on my side…… then I’ll listen” This is sooooo rich
2026-01-13 17:46:54
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soldwithamy
Amy 📍 Atlanta :
“You don’t have to be harsh to be firm.” 🙌🏼♥️
2026-01-12 19:27:01
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mind.matters.madelz
Mind Matters Madelz :
“If it’s not kind, I’m not interested.” I love that
2026-02-04 06:46:11
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TerriB :
We tend to be our own worst enemy. Name your inner voice and learn to be your own best friend.
2026-01-12 17:50:46
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shellyrambhajan03
shellyrambhajan03 :
So true, kindness is evolved, harshness is like a burden.
2026-01-13 17:28:45
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kimberlyrudolph69
Kimberly Rudolph :
Such amazing insight!
2026-01-13 00:48:47
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Danny Williams :
“There’s no redeeming value whatsoever in harshness…harshness does nothing that loving firmness doesn’t do better.” 👌👍💪💯
2026-01-13 00:29:04
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stay.with.jake
stay.with.jake :
We MUST always be kind to ourselves, and by virtue of that, be kind to others. Through love and grace, we change the world.
2026-01-16 03:11:48
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O’Neil&Son’sSportsCards :
I resonate with this so well ❤️
2026-01-14 00:58:05
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user8472729481910 :
How divine is he! 😇
2026-01-12 17:20:03
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$ex, Fights &Other Skills :
King.
2026-01-14 21:40:49
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mcbeck123
Rebecca :
Woah!! Powerful!
2026-01-12 17:50:53
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eccentricliliancarol27
eccentricliliancarol :
I needed this, I have been restarting my journey of kindness to my young clients because they're always rude. from today onwards I choose to smile and treat them with kindness.
2026-01-12 19:49:34
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ajkq10mom
Lisa Ann :
wow love this so much if it's not kind I'm not interested
2026-01-13 02:42:31
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drstephaniemulick
Dr Stephanie Mulick :
Thank you
2026-01-31 17:44:39
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BeachBum4Lyfe :
THIS IS GENIUS. 🤯
2026-01-14 03:42:54
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gregorymadrid0
Gregory Madrid :
These words hit so hard. Thank you!
2026-02-10 19:52:26
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YESENIA C ✨ :
Yes 👏
2026-02-18 17:13:43
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Felicia LaShawn :
POWERFUL ❤
2026-01-13 04:29:42
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Chief :
Well Said!!
2026-01-13 02:26:27
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