@ken.arrington: Why People Aren’t Leaving Jesus But Are Leaving the American Church - I love these comments because they usually come from someone who watched half a video, got triggered, and skipped the other 300 - 600 I’ve already made. Folks deeply invested in church-as-business systems tend to defend the system when it’s challenged, instead of listening to people who were hurt by it. So how do we fix it. It’s simple. Do what Jesus actually said and do it together. For the apostles, church wasn’t a Sunday building with a stage, four polished songs, and a 20 minute talk shaped by consultants. It was people joining together to make “on earth as it is in heaven” real. Feeding the hungry. Welcoming strangers. Clothing the poor. Visiting the sick and imprisoned. Matthew 25 wasn’t poetry. It was instruction. We don’t serve to gain. We serve because a heart remade in Christ overflows that way. That’s what faith with works actually looks like. When’s the last time your pastor washed feet in the community with no camera, no promo, no Sunday slide deck. Most CEO churches are full of people who want to lead but won’t serve the least. And that starts at the top. The early church met in homes, shared life citywide, and used gifts for the good of all. It wasn’t perfect, but it reshaped civilization. Today, most church budgets go to staff, buildings, media, and growth strategy. Outreach usually sits at the bottom. Often that money goes back into brand expansion anyway. Millennials and Gen Z see the gap. They’re not leaving Jesus. They’re leaving the system. And they still want community. If our budgets for buildings, salaries, AV, and marketing outweigh care for the poor, the addicted, the imprisoned, the refugee, we need to ask the hard question. What’s the point of church. People don’t need more Jesus branding. They need to see Jesus lived. That’s how the world changes. #kenarrington #church #americanchurch #deconstruction #creatorsearchinsights

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Aruhina :
My husband and I are exhausted from trying to find a church that is anywhere close to what the early church actually represented and is supposed to look like... Your previous video very clearly articulated what we have found to be true of many churches. If you have any advice on how to find a church that doesn't operate as a business, that would be extremely helpful. We currently watch Athey Creek online but would really like to find a church for in person fellowship.
2026-01-14 20:42:35
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mountainmama731
Mel :
Spot on! Btw, my 12yo daughter watched a video of yours with me and we probably watched about 10 more. She loves your videos and it’s brought up a lot of good convos and looking up meanings. She asks me every day to watch more cause she likes learning from you.
2026-01-12 20:31:36
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gizellaiszoe
GizellaisZoe✝️🙏 :
I agree with what you say I came out of a church in the '90s that my husband and I suffered spiritual and church abuse from the biggest problem we did though was not finding some other church to connect with and I spent years of drifting and before my husband pass the Lord actually put me in a small conservative Lutheran Church where I was able to fellowship and have the support of other Christians than my husband was gone and I moved to Florida and the Lord has put me in a church 300 members or so the pastor preaches word by word scripture by scripture which I really like, there are some issues that I don't care for but as long as the Holy Spirit has me there that's where I will be. I see some of the issues that could down the road cause problems but it's a good church we do a lot of community service and have a discipleship program for people that have come out of jail or rehab and we give out food every week So we're doing good but yes it's not perfect I don't think there's any perfect church out there and as long as the Holy Spirit wants me there that's where I'll be.
2026-02-21 18:31:31
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19secondsslow
Chris Congdon775 :
hey Ken, love your content. I work in a UMC that works heavily in actual outreach, and most of our missions are funded in beyond-budget giving, so we have to take that into account when looking at your percentages. Also, I think of the church first as a faith development organization. We don't have to be the org doing all the great work if we're raising generous people who feel empowered to go out and craft their own lives of ministry.
2026-01-14 02:26:25
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docloan1
docloan1 :
Do what Jesus did. Simple. 💯
2026-02-25 14:39:20
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margiesmithhendri
Margie Smith Hendrick :
I love your teaching, it so it resonates with me
2026-02-21 03:37:31
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adamkelm421
Adam Kelm421 :
Franchise churches have no idea what God is about to do to them. Good word.
2026-02-05 04:03:45
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mandaart73
Manda :
My Grandpa was a preacher. It was just one of his jobs. He worked various different jobs while he worked for churches. But he was trying to feed 6 kids.
2026-01-13 11:58:49
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conniebrandon163
conniebrandon163 :
spend money to help poor, sick, etc., instead of building expensive buildings with the newest technology and lining the pockets of the staff
2026-02-16 23:33:50
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clarice5266
Clarice :
🎤 drop. Everyyy time! Thank you for standing up!!
2026-01-12 23:34:16
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michelle_lee_eudy
Michelle_lee_eudy :
I’ve just discovered your videos. You’ve put words where I had none. I’ve been trying to explain all this to my husband for a year. We just left our church last year and I left broken and shell of my former self after I “served” until I had nothing left. I went in whole and pure hearted exicted to “give” of myself and left shocked and angry. We now are attending a small more “old school” school church where things are quiet and old hymns are still sung and God is mending my spirit. Thanks for your videos. I’ve learned a lot. 💗
2026-01-30 02:24:24
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nanafit02
Nana :
Great content! Please keep feeding us godly advise.
2026-01-15 19:44:56
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assani8g
Assani Shabani 🇨🇩 :
heavy on serving others
2026-01-24 18:30:55
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liszt244
Liszt :
I have felt this for years.i am so grateful for your words tha explain what i have been feeling. I have stopped attending church and spend time reading the Bible, journaling, and praying. I started my own bible study in the community. It’s very real and changing our lives.
2026-01-30 13:38:38
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deneisecool
Dee Cool :
Preach!🙋‍♀️
2026-01-13 15:38:27
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andyheizerbush
Andy Heizerbush :
good stuff brother
2026-01-12 19:13:29
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minutemanna
Manna in Minutes :
This is WOW…
2026-01-12 21:25:51
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tbk411
Tbk411 :
Spot on 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥…I will forward to my followers on all formats….I appreciate you very much 👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽
2026-01-12 22:55:47
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runamuck90
SimplePlan :
Thank you 🙏❤️🙏
2026-01-14 08:13:56
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claudia_nms
Claudia :
Thank you for this series. I thought I had finally found a church I could be part of. Within a 9 -12 month time frame I started to realize something just didn’t feel right. Now I understand what was going on…The Holy Spirit was letting me know something was up, I just couldn’t figure it out. Thank you
2026-01-21 00:21:20
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scottinman12
Scott Inman :
my favorite pastor (aside listening to you) is Josh howerton. I've been spending my Sundays listening to his sermon and podcast afterwards. his churchis too far away for me to attend. he speaks on megachurches not being evil and this past Sunday, on tithing. I didnt know how much I liked his opinion on that matter, but I do feel most of what he speaks is inspired. he even admits to having used others sermons in his own. all that to say this, I'm struggling with what I should be doing about in church Sundays and my tithing. any advise/mabey what's your opinion on weather or not we should make sure to be in a physical building once a week minimum? if it's not necessary, what should we do with the money? to explain a little better, I haven't been to church in decades and never paid tithing regularly, and have been convicted recently to come back to christ.
2026-02-09 19:59:07
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jamesmercer98
merk :
I am learning so much! Thank you
2026-01-26 20:58:17
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jkelley1978
Jan :
Great video!! I love your work. You tell the truth of God. Keep it up!! Bless you!
2026-01-27 16:42:34
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sculptbybri
Briana 💖⚡️| Fat Loss Coach :
Amen ❤️
2026-01-13 15:44:00
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