Jefferson Fisher
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Monday 12 January 2026 19:47:27 GMT
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beth :
I don’t think I’ve ever had a narcissist in my life. I wish I could meet one so I can understand.
2026-01-13 00:11:02
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TheGnomewhowanders :
It is exhausting. The worst is when they are the “nice guy” who always is the victim.
2026-01-15 13:26:07
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glaminana :
Mental and emotional abuse it strips you of your sanity
2026-01-12 21:46:58
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Toni :) :
I must have had a different breed of narcissists in my life because if I didn’t feed into the argument they wanted to have it would go from argument at pop rocs level to atom bomb and violence for days. They didn’t just give up and find someone else to argue with. 🤷🏻♀️
2026-01-12 21:12:30
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Kelly Nequist | Photographer :
I’m so exhausted. Even worse going through a divorce with a narcissist 😥
2026-01-13 23:51:26
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Sealenea :
literally just ignore what they say
2026-01-16 18:16:53
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Anacaren Carr :
It’s funny how when you don’t get mad or you don’t feel triggered by what they say how much more frustrated and upset they get.
2026-01-16 05:37:24
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JuneEighty :
I was dealing with this from my children’s father. I had no idea there was a name for it, but I knew something was wrong.
2026-01-12 21:38:50
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Kayyyy :
I learned how to do this with my husband in 2025. Don’t react. Don’t engage. And it’s been good! I’m not perfect but I’m happy with where I’m at.
2026-01-14 03:49:37
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Katia ★ :
This is exacccccccctly it. Digging hole after hole. Opening door after door. Changing topic after topic. Not playing anymore & now I’m the bad guy. Too bad.
2026-01-14 06:40:45
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JJ :
Good to see you in my FYP again!
2026-01-12 20:23:35
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PatriotMommaWarrenCo :
How about the narcs that reel you in then push you away, reel, push, reel, push. Trying to make you look crazy, that you want their company🤦🏼♀️
2026-01-12 21:34:15
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Lisa 🖤 :
Every discussion ended up going in circles until I gave up.
2026-01-13 13:14:26
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rainbowed6 :
fact
2026-01-12 19:56:46
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queencityjacey :
I had a therapist tell me when encountering a game of tug of war with evil, you can just drop the rope. Best advice ever. My young son loves fishing and I told him sometimes people will try to bait you into an argument, don’t catch that hook..you can just say ok and let them squirm
2026-01-21 21:12:03
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Chantal Lacombe :
They know your upset, when you FINALLY work up the nerve to say something they fight you in circles and they are SO SMOOTH at it you dont even realize its happened... and then you feel upset, and mad for being completely unheard..... and then they are mad at YOU for being mad at THEM....
2026-01-21 16:51:59
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Collective Forum :
or they gaslight you about "you shutting down" in the conversation....😂
2026-01-29 18:17:27
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Khris Finnerty :
My mother in law. 😬
2026-01-12 21:34:12
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TXhorn :
The recent interview with Kristie Noem was a perfect example of how the interviewer didn’t jump in the holes she was digging.
2026-01-13 13:40:47
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ame :
THIS
2026-01-13 01:38:53
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Ana Lanko :
My ex found one. Our son...
2026-01-12 19:56:07
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thisrealgoodlife :
These are important tips but I’m a little fatigued by the term “narcissistic” I find this perspective more empowering, “do I feel like I’m sharing or proving” if it’s proving I stop.
2026-03-05 14:13:37
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Jack :
What I don’t understand is that I look into it as a logical thing. I don’t start the argument and then now I’m the one who always plays the victim or is always nice. Like this thing is exactly explains what happens but in my relationship I don’t start these fights or anything so does that make me narcissistic? Also, I genuinely wanna know because I am confused and don’t want to be a narcissist
2026-02-20 03:35:23
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Ruffles_816 :
keep in mind to all the people in the comments the actual percentage of people diagnosed as a narcissist in the United States is not even estimated to surpass 6% so odds are the person in your life is not a narcissist, but most likely in avoidant of some kind which can mirror narcissism
2026-01-19 00:59:08
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