many people mourn the life they had before kids... like why?? I'd never wanna be the person I was before having a kid. I love this new version of me
2026-01-13 00:19:22
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Laura Doria :
As a woman with no kids I appreciated how you didn’t specify that this version or the past one is a better color, just a different one.
2026-01-13 03:37:50
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Jess :
✨Matrescence✨ motherhood is supposed to transform you and rearrange your life. Nobody is saying you need to completely lose yourself in it, but you do need to ride the wave and let it change you. It’s such a beautiful transformation.
2026-01-13 04:49:55
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Nyasa :
I’m excited for the change. I’m sick of myself 😂😂😂
2026-01-20 14:26:47
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Anonymous Ashley :
I’ve decided to lean into this chapter of life instead of fighting it. It’s temporary and I want to enjoy every minute of motherhood and having young children. When they’re a little older and more independent I can do more by myself.
2026-01-13 03:37:07
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user787212 :
Curious what’s your age
2026-01-13 02:06:07
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Crush goals & read books :
Love it! I remind myself that some chapters aren’t meant to last forever and being the person who is constantly chasing the past isn’t healthy either. Humans are meant to grow and evolve we aren’t meant to be 20 something forever.
2026-01-13 00:26:55
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P✨ :
Yes love it
2026-01-15 15:27:08
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TheBookOwl90 :
I love this take. So true! Yes we can reminisce on old times but I am a new person, I’ve changed so completely and will never be the same. My struggle is others accepting that “new color” people keep comparing me to me before kids - she’s gone and not coming back! And I am so happy with the new me 🥰
2026-01-20 13:30:21
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Kaitlin 🌞 :
i may not know myself anymore but i know i’m a better person as a mother
2026-02-03 23:19:34
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Alex Kaye :
THANK YOU I feel moms struggle with identity because of that!!! It’s an evolution! 👏💛
2026-01-14 03:02:52
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klondikecassidy :
It was a shock at first but I’m adjusting ❤️
2026-01-13 08:59:17
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Cheandre Damerell :
I’m a totally different person since I’ve become a mom and I’m happy for it 🥰
2026-01-13 06:35:36
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bunblesk :
How did you start to do all this work on yourself? I really appreciate your outlook as a new mum. Can you recommend any books or podcasts?
2026-01-13 08:52:22
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Meghan | boy mom 💙 :
Yes LOVE
2026-02-23 23:02:24
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🥝 :
Yes
2026-01-13 20:59:15
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Chloe Porter :
I love it
2026-01-13 21:41:36
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Harriette PJ Baiju :
this is something I needed to hear to confirm that I'm not the only one that thought of it this way
2026-01-13 00:21:43
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Emily Bricco :
this is an amazing way to explain it! ❤️
2026-03-01 02:51:13
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Amy Neal :
I feel this so much!! Using the colors was a perfect example. I feel like the first year of being a mom I was fighting so hard to get the “old me” back and had to “mourn myself” before I could step into the beauty of the CHANGE & evolution that took place. Embracing* the new version after being a mom is so important ❤
2026-01-13 20:31:24
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GirlMamax3 :
100%
2026-01-13 18:48:22
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Wyluxe :
HEY! COLLAB? FOLLOW US
2026-01-13 12:25:18
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martha_eileen :
Also like, what do you mean getting my life back, I don’t want that life!!!! I want THIS one with my baby🥹
2026-01-13 11:50:01
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Tash | UGC 🫧🧚🏼♀️ :
Love the new perspective ! I’m going to try this 🥰
2026-01-13 07:17:02
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Kana Kr :
@Jessy Nepolien
2026-02-18 00:54:20
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