I realised that the easiest way is to go to the same places often and around the same day and time you start connecting with other regulars (that applies to everything: pubs, coffee shops, pilates, library)
2026-01-14 01:21:23
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Myranda Byrne :
Extroverts aggressively adopt me
2026-01-14 02:27:46
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Adeline🇿🇦 :
I do volunteer work, and then find like minded people there. have met some of my very best friends like that.
2026-01-14 01:40:00
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gurbs 📚🐾 :
I joined a book club
2026-01-14 01:37:33
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Ali 🧡✨ Heath’s Mom :
Trauma bounding with new coworkers… 😬
2026-01-14 02:01:42
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🏠Investor Loans with Dustin :
The Gym, The Bar, Adult Sports Leagues. I had to completely change my approach and be incredibly intentional about making friends in my late 30s. Texting people I’ve met with specific plans not “what are you up to this weekend?” I would text “I’m going to have drinks at Bar A at 7:00 and would love for you to join.” It worked and I’ve created a little family that are all going to Mexico to celebrate my 40th in April.
2026-01-14 13:28:45
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cheycheypro :
Met my two besties on bumble bff!
2026-01-14 02:18:53
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ashleyck709 :
Starting new hobbies that have “learn to blank” classes! It may take a few tries but you meet people with similar interests. I tried learn to golf a few summers ago which lead into learn to curl in the winter and now I have a new friend group of about 5 people. It’s awesome.
2026-03-09 22:19:39
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lauraxnx00 :
I dm’ed girls on TikTok that I thought I would vibe with and they ghosted me once we made plans! Hope this helps 👍🏼
2026-01-14 02:06:26
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Bookish Cassidy 📚✨ :
I’m not. Hope this helps
2026-01-14 02:59:36
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declan_jm :
In the clurb, we all fam
2026-01-15 06:17:54
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Dr. Grace :
TikTok comments section lol
2026-01-14 01:48:57
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Demo Gakidis :
I did something called “stranger of the week” where I just tried to talk to one stranger a week
2026-01-14 23:55:32
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sunshinesushi :
Change jobs under bad managers, you’ll trauma bond for life with your coworkers
2026-01-14 11:22:15
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Elsa :
grad school 🤪🤙 $100K in debt for a few friends
2026-01-16 00:06:32
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Shazza 🇪🇺 :
I am not 😬, and as a childless person most former friendships died a slow death as well
2026-01-14 19:28:28
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Lya Celada :
In Mexico city we have all sorts of clubs (walking, running, dancing, reading, painting, etc) for free
2026-03-15 21:25:43
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BCRobinson24 :
For concerts the best way to do that is by talking in line before you get into the venue and talking before the show starts.
2026-01-14 16:43:41
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ava :
I just walk up to people in public places and talk to them. Results may vary
2026-01-14 02:18:36
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deepdishdimples :
I’m not meeting people but I started trying out international penpals and the person I’ve been safely chatting with over email from time to time, is an older man from Japan and he sends me pictures of the area he’s from and we talk about our life and our struggles. It’s quite wholesome and interesting to read about someone’s life on the other side of the world. I’m sure at some point we’ll send letters and goodies
2026-01-14 20:22:05
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Gil :
if you play boardgames or card games they usually have meet up
2026-01-14 01:45:54
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Fedex :
ceramics hehe
2026-01-14 02:26:49
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LUCY LOVE 🪩🤠✨ :
Book club! I went to silent book club when I moved to Miami and again when I moved to Texas and it was a great way to meet people! I also cried on TikTok about being lonely after relocating and to my horror 80k people saw it BUT it did bring some great friends into my life too 😂
2026-01-15 20:58:21
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Momo :
i’m not. i’m a loner now and i have no friends and it’s making me so miserable
2026-03-15 14:35:44
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