@coachbryanclark: I truly believe that avoidant men can change their patterns. But only if you stop expecting your partner to regulate your nervous system for you. Support is love. Responsibility is yours. If you want intimacy, build the capacity for it. #relationships #avoidant #avoidantmen #accountability #fixitorfeelit

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maggsledy
Maggie :
no avoidant is watching, their avoiding you.
2026-01-15 01:19:09
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beccaelise87
BeccaNotMecca :
Put this on their page not mine
2026-01-14 14:19:55
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jessicaanne0614
JessicaAnne :
He never returns, he just pretends like it never happened.
2026-01-15 19:11:21
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realtalkwithmeg
Meg :
Just ended a relationship due to this cyclical issue. You can’t do all the emotional labor in a relationship. It takes two and is a dance
2026-01-15 05:04:54
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stronghercoach
Isa :
Avoidants will never see this video in their fyp 🥀
2026-01-15 11:38:28
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bakingmama87
Kim Dean Richardson :
You have communicated this very clearly and simply. I’m hoping the avoidant I share it with will actually listen and digest it.
2026-03-01 13:45:25
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charmainelim06
charmainelim06 :
Bryan I’m going crazy, my partner is thinking of ending things, and it’s been over a week of almost radio silence. He just keeps saying he needs space and he doesn’t know what to do. What do I do?
2026-02-03 07:20:01
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heyitserick7
heyitserick :
As an anxious person, I needed to see this to understand their side. He's been trying really hard and it's also our responsibility to manage our flooding emotions knowing it'll overwhelm them. Avoidants aren't always demons, sometimes it's both of us
2026-02-24 20:48:12
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iamjustalittledeer
justalittledeer :
I never asked him for more than I gave him and I only asked because I thought that he actually was the person he said he was
2026-01-14 21:30:48
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lovelightandlattes
💫🌹Kat Rose🌹💫 :
As a healing fearful avoidant myself who tends to date a lot of avoidant men, I get why they are like this deeply and it makes me really sad because we (avoidants) want love. We are just so deeply afraid of getting hurt. 🥺
2026-01-19 05:40:29
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newme2106
newme2106 :
accountability
2026-02-10 09:05:32
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drgordonnameni
Dr.September :
I appreciate this post! My plan is to change before it is too late!
2026-01-15 16:47:16
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shelbymaytomassi
Shelby May Tomassi :
Put this on his fyp
2026-01-15 04:57:30
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tmsferguson
TMS 🇨🇦🇮🇪 :
Totally ok take space—just communicate your needs. Don’t disappear. It’s brutally cruel especially when they have no way to know if you died or not !
2026-01-15 06:21:13
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radiantalignment
Radiantalignmentbodyworks :
I miss my avoidant ex partner. However, I don't miss being the scapegoat for the relationship or the push pull dynamics. I hope he finds this video. 🙃
2026-01-18 17:59:40
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santanawthebandandas
SantanaGoneTellEm :
His fyp not mine
2026-01-17 00:12:57
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wendyblanchard00
wendyblanchard00 :
Thank you.
2026-01-15 00:22:47
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joeevenden
JoeE :
Accountability
2026-02-18 17:37:38
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ar2ro0277
arturo Y :
Accountability
2026-01-14 20:30:06
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claire_alexandra3
Claire_Alexandra :
Ugh! They are impossible and so hurtful.
2026-01-15 10:43:14
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she_tried_her_best
Alli B :
My avoidant barely acknowledged my birthday and Valentine’s Day yet will go out of his way to make effort for friends. Make it make sense 💔
2026-02-16 14:06:36
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graceofearth
Charis Melina Brown :
The men in our lives either protect us (including our hearts,) or they are the ones we need protection from. Emotional intelligence is non negotiable at this point, for real people ✨
2026-01-14 14:18:43
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jane.runyon
buttertotheedges :
I see the wounded boy in him that he cannot see, that's what keeps me here, his pain. and my pain of wanting him to choose me through that. I'm such a pick me! 😂😭😂 never really realized til now, but I know that is my pain to work on, and I have been. I just don't see him working on his side. we are coming up on 19th anny next month...not sure we will make it. 😔
2026-01-14 15:26:43
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jchap1218
Jchap :
Ok but how do I show this to them without them feeling like it’s an attack?!
2026-02-17 19:05:27
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dmariepaulo
Dmariepaulo :
lol sir, this is meant for his fyp not mine
2026-01-16 07:42:46
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