@coachbryanclark: I truly believe that avoidant men can change their patterns. But only if you stop expecting your partner to regulate your nervous system for you. Support is love. Responsibility is yours. If you want intimacy, build the capacity for it. #relationships #avoidant #avoidantmen #accountability #fixitorfeelit
He never returns, he just pretends like it never happened.
2026-01-15 19:11:21
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Meg :
Just ended a relationship due to this cyclical issue. You can’t do all the emotional labor in a relationship. It takes two and is a dance
2026-01-15 05:04:54
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Isa :
Avoidants will never see this video in their fyp 🥀
2026-01-15 11:38:28
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Kim Dean Richardson :
You have communicated this very clearly and simply. I’m hoping the avoidant I share it with will actually listen and digest it.
2026-03-01 13:45:25
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charmainelim06 :
Bryan I’m going crazy, my partner is thinking of ending things, and it’s been over a week of almost radio silence. He just keeps saying he needs space and he doesn’t know what to do. What do I do?
2026-02-03 07:20:01
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heyitserick :
As an anxious person, I needed to see this to understand their side. He's been trying really hard and it's also our responsibility to manage our flooding emotions knowing it'll overwhelm them. Avoidants aren't always demons, sometimes it's both of us
2026-02-24 20:48:12
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justalittledeer :
I never asked him for more than I gave him and I only asked because I thought that he actually was the person he said he was
2026-01-14 21:30:48
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💫🌹Kat Rose🌹💫 :
As a healing fearful avoidant myself who tends to date a lot of avoidant men, I get why they are like this deeply and it makes me really sad because we (avoidants) want love. We are just so deeply afraid of getting hurt. 🥺
2026-01-19 05:40:29
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newme2106 :
accountability
2026-02-10 09:05:32
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Dr.September :
I appreciate this post! My plan is to change before it is too late!
2026-01-15 16:47:16
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Shelby May Tomassi :
Put this on his fyp
2026-01-15 04:57:30
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TMS 🇨🇦🇮🇪 :
Totally ok take space—just communicate your needs. Don’t disappear. It’s brutally cruel especially when they have no way to know if you died or not !
2026-01-15 06:21:13
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Radiantalignmentbodyworks :
I miss my avoidant ex partner. However, I don't miss being the scapegoat for the relationship or the push pull dynamics. I hope he finds this video. 🙃
2026-01-18 17:59:40
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SantanaGoneTellEm :
His fyp not mine
2026-01-17 00:12:57
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wendyblanchard00 :
Thank you.
2026-01-15 00:22:47
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JoeE :
Accountability
2026-02-18 17:37:38
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arturo Y :
Accountability
2026-01-14 20:30:06
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Claire_Alexandra :
Ugh! They are impossible and so hurtful.
2026-01-15 10:43:14
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Alli B :
My avoidant barely acknowledged my birthday and Valentine’s Day yet will go out of his way to make effort for friends. Make it make sense 💔
2026-02-16 14:06:36
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Charis Melina Brown :
The men in our lives either protect us (including our hearts,) or they are the ones we need protection from. Emotional intelligence is non negotiable at this point, for real people ✨
2026-01-14 14:18:43
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buttertotheedges :
I see the wounded boy in him that he cannot see, that's what keeps me here, his pain. and my pain of wanting him to choose me through that. I'm such a pick me! 😂😭😂 never really realized til now, but I know that is my pain to work on, and I have been. I just don't see him working on his side. we are coming up on 19th anny next month...not sure we will make it. 😔
2026-01-14 15:26:43
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Jchap :
Ok but how do I show this to them without them feeling like it’s an attack?!
2026-02-17 19:05:27
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Dmariepaulo :
lol sir, this is meant for his fyp not mine
2026-01-16 07:42:46
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