@filmedbyerica: #harshsisteradvice

dionallanoid :

Reciprocity is key. No feedback is a great indicator.

brandon :

this not what i want gang i just want to feel appreciated and feel like im wanted

user3450000101683 :

I can’t watch anymore because it feels like no matter what I do is always going to be wrong lol

sentryjameson :

☦︎ Lucas ☦︎ :

Going on a Go-Kart date this weekend with my girl, I think i might be more excited than her fr😭

𝓐𝓵𝓪𝓷 ⚔️🖤✨☾⛧•༻ :

I’ll just stay single. This too much thinking.

Rich :

thanks big sis

jhittt :

Picking up calls is not reciprocation lmao

M$brown :

How about if your not interested

user35782._ :

I come back here every half year just to be ignored randomly once again

itsjustmohi :

All of your points are literally them responding to your efforts initially not them, actually taking an initiative and putting effort into you. Different effort can also mean that they show it in less forms.

☿ :

this is just relieving no reciprocating

chris douv :

Actually agree with this advice for once. It’s pretty solid and I certainly have recognized in my experience in dating

utw :

she told me she was excited for it and I asked why 🫠

p_musings :

Great look.

3dw4rd_0110_ :

I planned somewhere to go like cinema or an arcade she said no to both

𝕁𝕠𝕙𝕟 :

sorry I'm not reading minds

user3870237394247 :

🥰😏I’m no

ori g :

so what is the effort she's showing?

. :

wdym? how is being responsive "effort" that's like the most basic low effort thing possible.

Sheog0rath :

Why would i chase headaches? 😂

pankiwi89 :

You said a whole bunch of nothing. All of these are basic human decency, NOT effort in a relationship.

erik :

This is just according to traditional gender roles. Maybe we need to move past the assumption that “men have to do x” and “women have to do y”. Maybe we can show interest in various ways regardless of gender. If we want to crush the patriarchy we need to move past all aspects of it.

wyrumm :

So we are better be an event organizer pro.