@ask_julia: Mistakes People Make in the First Three Dates (That Quietly Kill Attraction) Most people don’t get ghosted because of one big red flag, they get ghosted because of mistakes people make in the first three dates that feel small… but change the entire dynamic. If you’re Googling or searching TikTok for mistakes people make in the first three dates, first date mistakes, second date mistakes, third date mistakes, or why dating feels confusing in the beginning, this is for you. In this video, I’m breaking down the most common dating mistakes in the first three dates that women make without realizing it, especially after a breakup, divorce, or long-term relationship. We’re talking about: • Mistakes people make on the first three dates • First date behavior that lowers attraction • Second date mistakes that make men pull away • Third date mistakes that create emotional imbalance • What NOT to do early in dating • How to date with standards, not anxiety • Dating mistakes women make early on • Early dating red flags vs. nervous habits • How to keep momentum in the first three dates

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Wednesday 14 January 2026 16:09:15 GMT