Imagine if you knew but didn't tell her, and she finds out in some other way. Not only could that scenario be traumatising and/or dangerous but also the hurt of you keeping it a secret. Why do people still feel like secrets and hush hush is the way to go...
2026-01-14 17:24:57
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Lane :
She HAS to know. She has to be prepared if they meet. You are such a powerful advocate and Mom.
2026-01-14 17:42:04
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saucersandskanks :
“She is in control of her story” 🔥💯
2026-01-14 18:25:37
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Kealuana :
Because you are a dam good Momma!
2026-01-14 17:04:40
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TheSassiestFox :
Thank you for treating your daughter like she matters in the decisions and discussions. I was left to always wonder what was happening with my attacker. My parents were worried it would scare me or cause more problems if I knew these things. Instead I constantly looked over my shoulder for years. A few years ago I took my power back and I’m not scared anymore. I’m now 47. I was 14 when it happened. Sending you love!
2026-01-15 00:50:51
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Bikerchik273 :
She has to know. Imagine if he just popped up and she was alone?
2026-01-15 02:01:15
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Maddie :
Because imagine she just bumped into him and found out that way???
2026-01-14 23:34:44
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Destiny Michelle🦋 :
As a victim, the mom is completely right. It gives her child an advantage to be prepared. Please let’s also understand that people who SA children and are turned in, want revenge. They hate the child more for telling or “betraying” them.
2026-01-16 11:36:42
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Kay Frost :
I am so sad she needs to do this but glad you and her can create a safety plan.
2026-01-14 17:09:09
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OpalescentTreeShark :
Not telling her would be cruel. I don’t understand why this is even a question.
2026-01-15 17:40:56
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NotAnotherEmeritus :
I admire you, Annie. It is wonderful you treat your daughter in this mature way and prepare her for the “what if”, instead of hiding the truth and leaving her in the dark. I’m sorry it’s come to this, but I wish both you and your daughter well
2026-01-15 12:05:05
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Angela Stallings :
It gives her a chance to have her panic, then plan, so she can stay calm and do whatever she needs to if an encounter happens. Love it 💜
2026-01-15 01:12:57
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judemcquay :
You are a wonderful mom Annie 💕💕. Yes she should know ❤️❤️
2026-01-14 21:09:43
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Tr0uB¡3 :
Paper doesn’t protect her she deserves to know this information for her peace
2026-01-16 04:20:19
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Salem :
Thank you for giving her the safety and autonomy to make informed choices
2026-01-14 17:05:57
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AFox :
Preparation is safety and security. You can’t plan for things you don’t know about.
2026-01-14 23:28:15
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Ashton :
you protected her by informing her of her brother being around. your taking care of your child. she'd probably hear about him being back elsewhere anyways it's better if this information comes from you first.
2026-01-15 20:24:00
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MommaPidgeon :
And this is why your an amazing mom and will continue to protect HER bc she DESERVES it
2026-01-14 17:27:35
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Karen Sorbara :
Your an amazing mom
2026-01-19 00:59:01
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Rachel Goellner :
She's trusted you with her secrets in this situation, so it would be a huge betrayal if you weren't honest with her. Thank you for arming her with the truth and reality.
2026-01-15 23:57:07
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Roxys19stars :
She’s so lucky to have you ❤️
2026-01-17 06:31:23
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user2810222984324 :
Totally agree if you don’t tell her and she finds out the person she trusts the most has been lost
2026-01-14 17:06:26
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Cami :
It might not seem like it to a lot of people, but giving her that information and allowing her to prepare in advance and make a plan and supporting her in protecting herself is truly a gift.❤
2026-01-15 02:56:23
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ashleyann29 :
you are an amazing mother and advocate for your daughter, and I really appreciate you sharing your story.
2026-01-14 17:20:02
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Rugged Raptor Productions :
She’s so lucky to have you as a mom ❤️❤️
2026-01-16 01:54:46
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