@missclairebenjamin: Handling a team member who turns up to work looking “scruffy” 👇 Bringing up someone’s appearance at work can feel awkward and delicate, so it’s important to approach the conversation with care. You might feel the urge to be direct or blunt, especially if you’re frustrated about having to raise it at all. But the reality is we all see the world differently. Personal style, values, and cultural norms vary hugely from person to person, and it’s important to keep that in mind. Speak in a way that’s kind, clear, and respectful, and aim to avoid sounding critical or judgemental. 💬 What would you add to ensure a conversation like this is handled sensitively? 📌 Please remember the advice offered in this video is general and won’t suit every situation. Always use your judgement based on your context. ➕ Follow Claire Benjamin for more strategies on navigating tricky dynamics at work #worktips #leadershipdevelopment #emotionalintelligence #corporatelife #communicationskills #assertivecommunication #managertips

kayrayhooray :

"Can I talk to you about something sensitive?" "No." End of conversation?

Jujus :

ask how their mental health is because these issues may stem from it

Angie Whitford :

I had to once have the deodorant chat with someone. felt so awful

ana :

the cut to the other person here killed me

david brindley :

You cannot say Iron your shirt to a employee. you could be subject a complaint

Ronnie :

Honestly!! This is appalling advice! Be direct and consistent! “ your dress appearance is not acceptable for the business. Ensure that matter is sorted before the next business day. I’ll advise HR of this conversation, should you require guidance on how to dress, seek their advice. - by tomorrow I expect the matter dealt with. “.

Tired_Māmā 🥱 :

I'd be more inclined to check in and see if there's something going on in their life and if so, how can I support them. Scruffy appearance could be the result of many reasons including mental health challenges.

34908900 🇬🇧 :

Every time I’ve built myself up to have the smell conversation, the first thing the person has said is, “No I don’t” Do people actually think you broach such a embarrassing subject just to pretend they smell?

Girlfriendinacoma :

These ‘scenarios’ wind me up

Claire | Work people tips :

We all see the world differently. Personal style, values, and cultural norms vary hugely from person to person, and it’s important to keep that in mind during conversations like this

user8766899678 :

🤣🤣🤣when it cut to her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Amy Needham :

Lmao I look like this most days 😅

LydJamJar :

When I was in customer facing roles I kep to the same uniform type clothes and hair style so I didnt have to worry about looking scruffy. Glad that now however if Im having a rough day I can just wack my hair up and get on with my day

Lisla Su Bobkis :

you could go one better as well just check in with the employee as often a scruffy appearance could be the start of something more serious with their mental health

Grg :

Interested to know what scruffy hair looks like for non-white people.

Goblin🌱 :

Tanya :

If it was me personally I would like the 1st way. But the second one is more professional.

Claire | Work people tips :

What would you add to ensure a conversation like this is handled sensitively?

Sam Yung 🎹🥘 :

I’m dying 💀😂😂😂😂😂

mj_notts :

Would start this off with a - are you okay? Is everything at home okay?

Jules :

She’s right enough 🤣

Raven :

Currently WFH and I look like this unless we have a meeting😂

Karen Travis :

This made me laugh out loud Claire 😂 good advice I thought 👏👏👏

P3TRX3🕷️🕸️ :

Loll