@abbyrodmanpsychotherapy: Are all narcissistic men gay? We have our suspicions. But one thing is for sure: They all hate women. Why? This goes all the way back to their relationships with their moms. I’ve made a couple of videos about this topic if you’d like to go digging. That mother-son relationship (along with the genetic propensity to be narcissistic) is the ground zero of the development of narcissism in men. Regardless, their self-loathing is so overwhelming and debilitating that they simply don’t want to suffer it alone. And destroying the women in their lives allows them to “destroy” dear, old mom and the damage she did. Their female victims are the ones who pay the price. #fyp #narcissism #narcissist #narcissisticabuse
I want to understand why I have been involved with two narcissistic men……. What about me attracts men like this
2026-03-01 02:02:11
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mammadiane 🇨🇦 :
My DL ex hated me because he wanted to be me.
2026-01-15 13:51:11
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Kay Kay :
He hated my independence, he hated my upbeat attitude, he was jealous of my friend group. It took 18 months for his true self to show. It finally came to an end when my brain kicked in and said “If you don’t leave now, he will forever treat you this way.” I walked out and haven’t spoken to him since. Congrats to me, I’ve made it one month without contact.
2026-02-02 17:51:10
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czbeth :
Mother wound runs deep- hates me and our daughters
2026-01-15 02:47:28
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Meg :
They’re not gay! It’s not that simple. It’s far more complex than. It’s about inner love where a mother should have unconditionally loved him and didn’t/ couldn’t. So to counteract that inner child pain they need to find control over a woman in anyway possible to them
2026-01-17 04:22:56
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TJD :
they find the good ones ? nope,you are what you attract. victims of narcs ignored the red flags cause of the lovebombing. if you attract a toxic person it means you need to work on yourself
2026-01-15 12:47:43
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Tobin2021 :
They can destroy you but when leave them… you can become a warrior!
2026-01-15 04:50:20
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🪻TexasBelle🪻 :
Narcissist’s aren’t here to teach us about them. They teach us about ourselves. They are a lesson. It’s about us and our boundaries, values, and emotional resilience. They mirror back where we need growth.
2026-01-18 15:31:30
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looklikebev721 :
He tried ......but he didn't make me.he couldn't break me! But GOD.
2026-01-15 04:13:00
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Mimi :
Facts 💯 married one. A living hell.
2026-01-15 20:32:39
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TMS65 :
So true, I felt like he despised me
2026-01-15 18:50:31
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Syl D’asaro Tonkin :
I truly believe that they hate what shines in that particular woman as a reflection of what they are lacking.. Also a victim/survivor.
2026-01-17 11:23:04
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Jflow :
I agree with you Abby. It’s 9 months after I had my partner removed from my home. In the last 3 months of our 6 years together he let me see the depth of his contempt and hate. It was scary. I sincerely believe he wanted me dead
2026-01-15 04:42:31
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Jacqueline Artecona :
Yep, my narcisstic ex was evil to me. Everything u said is 100% accurate
2026-01-16 19:41:03
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Groovy G :
oh i resonate with this! they have no self love, and they will break you
2026-01-15 12:15:59
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nana :
I agree with you 100%
2026-01-15 07:24:34
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Sunspots_Glare :
They steal their good energy
2026-01-15 03:22:29
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Silver Fox :
You are spot on.
2026-01-15 01:12:44
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Addienden :
I'm dealing with a narcopath..any tips please🙏
2026-01-15 17:03:22
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M&M :
But why did he stay with me for 40 years?
2026-01-15 02:41:51
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Nytesong :
Absolutely resonates. I agree, narcissistic men are completely misogynistic. I survived 27+ years of narcissistic abuse and I was hated in everyway while others were raised up, honoured, and put on pedestals in front of me. I am free now, living my best life.
2026-01-15 07:05:34
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HP :
I can relate and I meet two narcissist back to back, I’m drained 🥺
2026-01-15 22:43:58
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